Tuesday, August 26, 2008

Bondage 101

Bondage is a sadomasochist practice that consists in restraining a sex partner in order to caress and induce sexual relation. For such immobilization are employed ropes, cuffs and socks, depending on what sex partners are up to. In bondage, the idea is to have a role sexually dominant and a submissive one.
In bondage, both partners derive pleasure, which is related to the sensation of being subdued by or dominate another person. By the rule of thumb, there's agreement set by the couple for neither of them to get any kind of injuries during sex even so there's gestures and jargon to tell the dominant role that is time to call it off.
There's who practices bondage with a fixed partner-spouse, girlfriend, as there's who practices it with non-fixed partner. No data is available to tell which one is practiced most, but it's known that sites are there for this sexual intent as well as chat rooms for the same reason and functioning rooms where adepts can have sex with ropes, slings and attire available purposely.
Before considering bondage as perversion, we should think that each one knows what likes and dislikes in bed and in principle there's no harm as such in the practice of bondage. There could be said that bondage is a way of spicing up a sexual relation likewise the multitude of sex positions of Kama Sutra or the likes.
What shouldn't be forgotten is that exist sadism and masochism, and the bondage practice might be underlying some sexual disorder more serious. There should be a fine line drawn between sexual practice and sexual disorder.
Sex means caress exchange between two people in which the main goal is to obtain sexual pleasure. The means employed are many, but if those means produce any psychic or physical distress for either of them, we should think of disorder.
And suffering can be regarded as failure in pleasure inducement in sex other than subjecting or being subjected or even spending a significant amount of time conceiving ways of carrying on bondage.
It's likely to be thought that whoever practices bondage lies low. It's known that prejudice exists, but also it's known that there's for some people curiosity.
If there's curiosity in bondage practices, and if there's someone keen on it, the natural approach is the fulfillment of desire. There might take a little longer, lacking of courage one might end up feeling self-conscious for bondage practices, but it's down to each one of us to know that, much as in any given sexual practice.

Kisses,

Jesse~

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