Group Sex

Group sex, a rather anonymous sexual practice. But why this happens? Absolutely, dealing with sex and sexuality pertaining issues often includes difficulty, taboos and preconceived ideas. Forcibly, not every one feels fit to talk about this kind of subject. And that's the reason why there still exists, at present days, difficulty so evident in kid's education.
Even with the wake of sexual revolution, long time ago, our society, still brings expressive remnants of concerns about sex, and its forms of providing pleasure. We're sick and tired of knowing that when it come s to sex, we're referring to the human nature, a instinctive power that is born with the being detached of any kind of rule or limitation.
But rational being we are, and thus we need to develop within a society, which includes family, school and work that surely will impose us rules. However, there wouldn't be because of such that the power of our desires should be eliminated. A human being has his desires, sexual fantasies, and each one with his life stories, with his expectations, wills and even curiosities about sexual practices. There may or may not be accepted by people, but exists for sure. Therein lies the reason for this article, group sex.
Doubtless, group sex is motive for a great deal of curiosity, which these days could already be satiated by discreet manner. After all, the subject in itself brings about known taboos.
The internet is means ideal for this sort of information, for there are sites that expose it in clear and informative manner. On which point leaving the person in anonymity, without feeling exposed and with doubts clarified somehow.
Group sex is anything but sexual fantasy, which mulls over people's heads until sassing out their will. But such sexual fantasy can also come followed by fears and concerns like "could I be normal"? 'would my sexual desires be absurd?" so far, and it happens exactly because we live in a society full of cultural and religious values, which would never admit this kind of sexual relation.
It's rather complicated to deal with this sort of situation that places in confront desires. A sexual fantasy of sexual practice that isn't accepted by most people, after all undermine, suppressing a desire isn't something that goes well with a human being.
We are referring here to a sexual desire that is healthy since within an existing reality and there's a lot of people adept to group sex.
People seek relationships of better quality so that more prone to fulfill their sexual fantasies and kick in more dialogue with sex partners as well as further exchanging experiences. It can only improve relationships.
By the way, it's worth mentioning that whoever opts for such sexual practice may suffer consequences whether personal-as in deception for this maybe not as expected, or arising interpersonal conflicts.
Thus, group sex for those willing to experiment might be either good or bad. For all I care, it's important that those involved in don't do it only for the sake of others' sexual delight.

Kisses,

Jesse~

Sex and Libido

From all of the female sexual dysfunctions, perhaps the most widespread in the clinical practice being the loss of libido or the accentuated diminishing of the sexual interest.
Such loss may be abrupt or insidious, that is, progressive decrease until the total absence of interest towards sexual relation.
Factors that lead to such loss of sexual interest generally are multicasual, and almost in their totality of psychogenic origin. There are those who since the beginning of sexual life, always feel little if none urges to have relations, but in counterpart, there those who always been quite active, in a sexuality standpoint, who in a given moment watched their libido diminish and even so disappear.
The vast majority of women, who seek aid by this complaint, do so by fear of loosing their partners, whose by demand starts to notice the lack of interest and demand a solution.
Almost always the loss of desire is generalized, in other words, there is no desire by any object in special, although in few cases the loss of desire being selective, as for example absence of desire for the partner, though desire towards other men.
An interesting fact is that almost totality of them women referred loving their partners and can’t come to terms with such loss of libido.
As it so happens, the lack of desire interferes in the whole remnant of sexual response, since the arousal phase gets compromised more often than not rendering orgasm implausible.
Many remark that as far as they concern sex is no longer necessary and that they only do so in order to please their partners.
That renders them extremely unhappy, for they would delight to take the most out of the relation and by so-pretending interest feel minimized and somewhat prostituted and exploited.
The pharmaceutical industry has conducted surveys on medication capable of triggering sexual desire at cerebral level.
Nevertheless, currently the Sexual Therapy is still the only treatment capable of restituting, if not in its totality at least partially, the lost libido, so as to get back to a normal wholesome sexual life and so- prevent conjugal crisis that may more often than not lead to separation.
It is in therapy that the patient and therapist would seek out the causes to treat them and modify therefore the endeavor. The state of affairs likewise the routine of relation and settlement of the couple nearly always make presence in the geneses of dysfunction of desire hypoactive.
Adjustments in demeanors as well as drills of accuracy and attempts to halt the automatism of the mechanism of relation being present most often as a manner of treatment.
Anyhow it is always sensible to remind that sex plays a significant role in our lives, as somewhat instinctive and its deficiency usually brings about repercussions in conjugal life and interpersonal in all the sectors of our relations.

Kisses,

Jesse~

Extreme Sex Impulse: Ninphomania

Do we like sex a little too much? How to deal with sexual impulse?Nymphon - stands for nuptial chamber in Greek. Also in Greek mythology, nymphs are deities of nature, who seduce any virile stud they can lay their hands on, and so do the satyrs their male-counterparts with naive vestals. This is where the roots of today's nymphomania spawned. Stemming from myths, nymphomania connotes the compulsion to have sex or as technicalities would have it, a pathology.Why is it pathological? There would represent addiction to individuals likewise chain-smoking, alcoholism and drug taking. As linked directly to compulsion and anxiety, the nymphomaniac is sex junkie, addicted to sexual compulsion only for the sake of obsessive compulsion, without deriving any pleasure out of it. So, as sexual-obsession takes front seat, life in turn becomes somewhat difficult as daily chores and other ways of exchanging affection get left behind. As a result compunction sets in. Affected people generally go on about it, given that professional life and friendships become stigmatized. Having unprotected sex , getting freaky to push reality aside in order to get another kick .More often than not, sexually compulsive relations are anorgasmic by all accounts. To put simple, its motto isn't pleasure but satisfaction derived from compulsion alone, much like in any given addiction. When sex-junkies loose control over their lives going out of their ways in detriment of addiction in nymphomania sexual obsession rules. In some serious cases of nymphomania, women and men alike have reported having sexual obsession relations with as much as fifty different sex-partners in just a month.Among those accounted for were there work-mates, high ranking colleagues, peers and sex pros.Furthering, generates highly emotional and professional stakes. Messing around, nymphomaniacs' melting pot mix up booze and recreational-drugs in, likely to push boundaries further by behaving compulsively and augmenting the likelihood of acquiring STD's.Albeit, nymphomania revolves around pushing boundaries and, therefore should be treated suit.Through psychotherapy one may ponder about its subliminal questions and come to an understanding. It would enable to uncover the underlying reasons for channeling so much attention to sex. As well as masquerading, it also further undermines other equally important life-aspects.Alongside therapy, medication may be referred to be employed at initial phases. In order to minimize rebounding fits of anxiety experienced as behavioral parameters get fine tuned underway.Self-support groups namely sex -addicts or compulsive behavior, cater for the likes, who in turn can exchange experiences, and thus, pass along information. The results are somewhat encouraging as self esteem builds up and anxiety suppresses, and likely to bring forth new insights in affectivity and sexuality alike. At times, members as overwhelmed by joy, surprisingly get to re-discover true sexual pleasure. But, what would denote normal in terms of frequency in sexual relation and also number of sex-partners? Bearing in mind that, from the sixties - sexual revolution and all its counterculture we spin off. How would I know if I were nymphomaniac or satyr? If I had, for instance, as many as fifteen sexual relations last week? It's as straightforward an answer that points towards what role-model sex would play in your life. Does it mean pleasure or repent and upset? Have you ever had family or professional set backs due to sex-appetite? Do one-off shags always appear awkwardly unfulfilling? Or, do you go by the notion that when feeling uptight from life- upheavals there isn't nothing better than soothing from overdoing night stands that sometimes even safer-sex gets overlooked ? If most of it you answered yes, you're in for professional help. To sum up, to get laid is wonderful and should've been done as many times you'd wished for, but if it turns obsessive doing your head in, care should be taken. Specialized treatment is needed if the delights and the joy of sex are to be brought back in your sex-life.Therefore friendship and trustworthiness, reassurance and work are corner stones of our personal satisfaction.

Kisses,

Jesse~

Sex Differences in Sexual Positions

Complaints of sexual nature are bread and butter at daily clinics. one of the most frequently asked question concerns sex pace or rhythm of sexual partners.
Both men and women share common ground-one sex partner displays higher sexual appetite than the other. Some going on about their sex partner’s willingness for sex action like swapping sexual positions almost uninterruptedly as changing socks throughout the day. Those just can’t get enough of a good thing, willing to have sex several times a day non-stop. For them, this situation denotes an abnormality or sexual flaw.
As a matter of fact, the ones doing the whining tend to think that sex partners might have an exaggerated libido. In my clinical practice such complaint sticks out mainly amongst women, which doesn’t necessarily mean that men don’t say the same.
In contrast, some others complain that their sex partners don’t share the same sexual desire or eagerness. This one being typical of the male public, again and again the same applies to women.
The matter of sexual frequency between sex partners is in general directly related to each one’s libido as well as their pre-established sexual routine. Libido gets translated by the human sexual desire featuring degrees of intensity in different individuals. As it so happens, when one individual shows signs of higher libido than the other, he/she winds up by promoting a certain discomfort namely sexual inadequacy.
Yet, there are external factors that may interfere in the sexual life, influencing directly on libido such as social-cultural factors, finances, offspring, family affairs, work matters, health concerns amongst others. It means that, disregarding gender, the way that individuals cope with conflicts resulting from those factors; ends up by interfering on their sexual appetite.
It’s important to learn whether each one’s libido had suffered alterations in a given period of time. For example, if sexual appetite was intense becoming from some point on somewhat different, decreasingly.
It seems to me that in such cases professional scrutiny becomes utterly important in order to either discard or diagnostic any incipient dysfunction so as to treat it accordingly.
Back to razzmatazz of sexual rhythm, sexual relation’s frequency gets established from the beginning by sexual partners. I consider perfectly acceptable that a certain sex relation starts quite intensively to diminish naturally as time goes by, whether by wearing out or getting stuck in a rut. Not forgetting that at middle age sex drive normally drops physiologically speaking.
Regardless of the reason for discrepancies in libido, open dialogue is essential to get on top of problems by coming to terms with sexual nuances.
Only time ensures catching up to smooth rough edges on a sexual relation.

Kisses,

Jesse~

Sex Games

What about sexual intercourse if weren’t for the genitals? To a man there certainly wouldn’t exist. To a woman there could perhaps result in a hallucinating orgasm. The point is that sexual intercourse gets perceived differently by men and women, therein lays one of the differences between male and female- the genitality.
Herein I didn’t mean that the genitals aren’t important, all the way around. What I intend to bring across is how to use the genitals creatively rather than the simplicity of penetration.Both the penis and the vagina may be turned into sex toys and in manipulation alone may induce delightful sensations with needless penetration.
At first, it’s imperative that the couple strikes a sort of truce- penetration only through mutual agreement. The importance and main goal of the game is ultimately explore those genital sensations- even if it results in orgasms without penetration.
Innumerous are the manners to touch the genitals in order to render them ready for orgasm, therein comes into play the creativity and preferences of each and every one. Aside from own body attributes, it enables reliance on devices that may be purchased at sex shops alike, or even those products that us all have at the household.
Scented oils might be employed as prime resort, mostly for manipulation purposes of the male sexual organ. Picture a subtle masturbation out, almost as a hand stroke on a well-lube up penis with scented edible essence. Though shortly thereafter, let your hair out by rubbing your nipples on the gland, just to embrace lodging it between your breasts afterwards, rhythmically and ever so carefully in order to prevent hastily induced orgasm. For those aficionados into female feet- quite a few for all that is, strokes may be performed by feet sole and toes.
The tongue and mouth might play major role in this game of seduction. Perhaps instead of oil there might employ custard, Chantilly or honey. Just smear a blob on his shaft and tip of the gland and get busy on licking, sucking and making circular motions smoothly and ever watchful not to blow his top.
As for the women, a massage on the clitoris with the feet, so much so as the hands, tongue and mouth seem rather beckoning. The same herein applies to essential oils, porridge, honey, champagne among others. A well-lubed up vagina promotes penis fretting on the clitoris, and no penetration, bound to enhance pleasure further.
The breasts should not be forgotten, as sexual organ of equal relevance that deserves all due respect. Covering with ice-cream, runny chocolate, maple syrup or whatever that your preference allows, to lick and suck them shortly thereafter means always abound source of pleasure for the couple.
For those who dare most in self-indulgence, rimming- a tongue massage on the anus and surroundings, yields indescribable sensations for both sexes. Let alone the perineum area, nerve pathway-ridden and sex-linked pleasure loaded, almost enticingly beckons that well worked on tongue and mouth job.
The two last spots, perineum and anus often get left behind in the sex act. Yet sensation pathways so-ridden that only those who dare to let it all hang out might be able to describe what it feels like.
Such sex games would work out well as foreplay to penetration itself. It’s bound to take time as well as good streak of self-control in order not to call sex games a day too hasty. The challenge has been launched. Experiment yourselves and find out how far you can get.

Kisses,

Jesse~

Anal Sex, Sexual Pleasure and Sexuality

Anal sex, a penis entering either a female or a male anus. This penetrative sex as another mode of pleasure wield during sexual intercourse.
Nerve bundles equally to other sexual stimuli sensitive body parts serve the anus. It’s known that anal sex takes a lot of flak from sexual taboos of modern society. Some misinformed people hold anal sex as dirty and gruesome. A line of perception that too has deteriorated since the advent of the AIDS pandemic.
A sexual pleasure yielded believed to stem even from taboo mongering, whereupon the act of doing something whether wrong or naughty according to society’ is perhaps utterly exciting. As for men, given that the anus is poorly lubricated and somewhat tight, renders the idea even more exciting.
The various positions that a female figure should be at for more comfort in penetrative sex is such highly exciting factor for men as well, who reportedly feel more powerful, dominant, in sexual affairs.
However, anal sex isn’t every one’s cup of tea. People should know best what gives them sexual pleasure. There are those who would enjoy licking and touching but won’t tolerate the idea of penetrative sex.
For the sake of information, the anus is extremely stretchable and bound to endure even a fatty-penis. So much for fist fucking, a highly skilful technique supposedly gives off great pleasure. Not for the fainthearted tough, for apprentice starts with one finger and builds up from there. As known, the rectum is the final part of the digestive tract and so highly contagious, mostly bacteria. Contact with other body parts may cause serious infections. Anal sex is STD’s main door such as AIDS and Hepatitis B, thus the need for safer sex. The first anal sex experience may be followed by pain or discomfort, as much as inexperience, tension and insecurity are influencing factors. However, as time goes by, if someone enjoys anal sex will turn more relaxed as pain tends to recede turning into sexual pleasure.
Muscles relax from easygoing mind-approach, that is to say, anal sex pleasure takes self-control. Feeling at ease helps self-acknowledgement. When having shower try and shovel a finger up ever so slowly while releasing muscle tension. Keep nails short and always lubricated before inserting in anything. When a finger starts to feel kind of all right go for twos and then threes, constantly probing before moving onto serious poking. And with practice, anyone can afford a whole hand in and then some.
Sex partners should take advantage of foreplay added by loads of lubes or play the old 69 giving the anus a good lather of saliva prior penetration.
Some sexual positions enable anal sex farther, made possible by popular demand are:
She on top- ideal for the newcomer as she gets to set pace and depth of penetration.
From rear- the old in out as she kneels down exposing her hidden secrets, now there’s a catch, for each time a penis goes inside the vagina the condom has to be changed before it goes in the anus due to the threat of cross-infection. Sign of the times.
Face to face- she on her back bring knees up to chest height placing feet on his shoulders. Easy penetrative angle of sex, unsuitable for beginners.
Back view- she places a pillow mound underneath her tummy while he lies on top opening her cheeks with hands. Degree of difficulty-quite hard.
But it all comes down to personal experience, Find out yours and spread around.

Kisses,

Jesse~

Male Sexual Climax

Also the Male orgasm would features particularities and curiosities for the female gaze. Thus male orgasm stands for the last stage of a cycle linked to the sexual response. Otherwise known as sexual peak by characteristically releasing built up tensions, which come followed by muscular spasms triggered.
To our better understanding let’s shed light on the stages in which comprise the male sexual response. In accordance to conducted surveys by experts on the human sexuality there are four phases comprising our sexual response…
Arousal is the physiological response triggered by external stimuli on which point interpreted as sexual urge. There are significant alterations in this phase such as vascular clogging (increased ongoing blood) and myotonia (involuntary contraction of muscular fibers).
Roughly speaking the penis gets harden on sprees of desire, as of neurological input some such haemostatic (blood flow constriction). A desire sign gets triggered in the brain which in turn sends off signals throughout the body. All takes place in a somewhat subdue manner, in a blink of an eye, figure of speech.
Leaving all set for sexual intercourse due to our guest star the man’s testosterone level, which sets him a part when it comes to reproducing.
The plateau, this phase might occur prior or post ejaculation, promoting testicular elevation thus clogging up the scrotal sac.
Sexual climax could be divided in two sets first of all there’s contraption of the prostrate followed by the release of seminal fluid (within pause intervals). once geared in action there’s no way to block it up once involuntary muscular contraction would set tension released.
Resolution aka refractory period, in this stage the man looses erection and bound to remain numb to sexual stimuli for time being.
There’s no divergent relation so as to crisscross orgasm with ejaculation. As are processes profoundly intertwined with neither origins nor functions alike. A man derives orgasm from a neurological pleasure doom. What happen is shortly upon striking orgasm as it were, seminal fluid builds up in the prostate gland bulb which sparks off certain sensation of eminent ejaculation. And ultimately so takes place the whole dynamic process from then on. It begins by drawing the testicles close together, in that the discharge of seminal fluid promoted by muscular ripples on sexual desire threshold.
The link between orgasm and ejaculation lies within the fact that a man can reach climax without shooting or even shoot his load inducing pleasure aside from sexual intercourse. Out of curiosity at regards semen is that might sting if getting in contact with the eyes.
Some are bound to produce less fluid by growing old. So those worryingly about it are truly producing it on average.
In order to increase the shooting load all he has to do is lengthen the elapsed time on the initial phases of sexual arousal aka foreplay. Otherwise sexuality as offhanded is not a rule, but specific to each and every one so much as lifestyle and background.

Kisses,

Jesse~

The Belly Dance

Bellydancing used to be such ancient mode for airing sexiness, history has it. Employed in sex rituals by the priestesses for worshiping the sex gods, it stretches as far back as five thousand years ago.

In India, the women could rely on the likes of Kama Sutra. Such wealth of knowledge took a low profile in pains to be protected. There used be passed on by the word of mouth by the tribesmen. Hence, the woman turned such hearsay into motion and therefore enabled themselves in the rituals at least, to overcome bias and unveil their secrecies without a hint of perception by the unwelcome.

The belly dance, renowned the world over, sexiness lies within it throughout the times, being the womb of a woman where new life would get nurtured. A move that hints the sexuality of a woman upon her inner most to bring it all out, in which point overridden by the inculcations and hang-ups. It’s in there that all the body energy lies. The belly dance conveys this line for them, as of the spellbind energy well-within, by springing themselves into balance so much for their best benefit.

Those into belly dancing yearn deep inside some desire to heighten and enhanced sexiness, be it for the sake of jacked up self-esteem as to keep fit, since it brings some many muscles into play. Yet there are more concrete targets as in learning it to catch the partner off guard, and spice it up maybe and even for the odd kinky sex that gets us all moving unrepentantly. Despite contributing to improvements towards sexuality, it mustn’t be viewed under misconceived ideas with bias on sex as shown by the mainstream, just because it highlights her sex appeal. Performance can be very beneficial to the women herself, for her body and her soul. Restitutes the pleasure within the female sexuality, and yet the acknowledgement of old values. In that the meaning of wellness, to be in touch with the inner most level and always sought after the power of luring through motion and the wellbeing it brings along. The power within alluring and being aware of own sexuality capability. Its goodies are time bound, through stamina built up while ongoing blood improved synergism. Stretching induces into heighten state of relaxation. Plus works on the whole body, strengthening it up and keeping fit. Self-esteem can be jacked up through motion, of whose becomes more attentive as senses get sharpen. Such host of factors epitomizing the benefits of body and soul, but all it does is to boost self-confidence and will power though. And it’s not the dance itself that would change her mind but though a string of elements that would bring out all the potential within the woman herself.

As for her sexuality, the belly dancing plays major role directly upon her lifestyle, since cramp soothing. In which point brought into play by the pelvic and perineal motions, striking balance for the sexual department and ensured contractions and dilations in labor, so much for its recovery afterwards. Belly dancing brings out the woman consequently with a better frame of mind towards her sexual department.

Kisses,

Jesse~

Sex versus Love

Sex is better than love, some would say. Perhaps, something of a woman's mind other than men. Once, it's quite straightforward to part sex from love as far as men's sexuality concerns.
Currently, the most popular relations are those of all out sex and no compromising. Individuality and freedom of choice became as important or even more than choosing someone with selectivity towards more reasonable living. There's been a great deal of self-preservation, not taking chances in living with emotionally overburden types. An individual isn't asked to show a great deal of his emotional, way of doing things, which is another part. The most important in a relation is sex, whereupon no strings would come attached. Both genders grown a lot smart in letting emotional luggage of others and the likes being dumped in their privacies. People only let themselves go when sexual urges surge, as sexual desire afloat and intention is only just given and taken sexual pleasure, to live up a grateful moment, enjoying what feels right at the moment with no impositions whatsoever.
I reckon that detached sex only for the sake of it has its value, but also convey that this kind of behavior can't make up as motto in life. As not machines but sexually charged beings an as such, bound to have feelings, hankers and needs, which might be disguised in such relationships despite repercussions at some point. Sex could be just an expression of biological necessity. It would be a lot easier to be dealt with, otherwise, sex also express many other necessities, not only physical but also emotional and behavioral in the same lot.
Before and after sex would be at stake, to namely a few; caress exchange, intimacy and kissing, hugging, and even concerns for the sake of sex of the other half. It's such unique moment, likely to produce side-effects and sensations given so lack of bounds may induce emptiness if not solitude.
A human being doesn't come to this world to live alone for the sake of one off sex delight and return to limbo afterwards. Thus, this happens to those who seek this kind of relation.
Perhaps, sex with no strings attached should be the life optional of someone at a particular moment.
Nevertheless, whichever reason of such decision it call for further attention for sex with no emotional rapport still involves two people and the other person involved might be so keen. This very person liable of sexual fantasies and goals and therefore emotion takes its toll once again. At which point, hang-up-triggered sadness may ensue.
A sexual intercourse encompasses more than mundane physical communion, it's synonym of abnegation, of well sought after sexual heightening, of emotional comfort and peace of mind.
The delights of sex can provide thought provoking spells of well being for both the body and soul.
If asked whether sex should compromise or should sex detach of hang ups, go for uncompromised sex. It might be rather risky but the likelihood of well being attainable is unbeatable.

Kisses,

Jesse~

All Out Sex

In the realm of human sexuality, come across men and women who when talking about sex wind up revealing that beyond their pursuit for sexual satisfaction, therein underlies a quest for the ultimate sex.
Such quest encompasses age, beauty, intelligence, camaraderie, sexual fantasies, sex hankers, time frame of sexual relation, type of relationship, emotions so on and so forth.
Significance given by everyone to attributes so far described varies accordingly to individual evaluation. Regarding personal needs and expectations in respects to sex.
In individual or couple's therapy, seemingly women who tend to express this search.
Commonly, when it comes down to sex, they complain of their husbands being egoists. So far, their desires remain unfulfilled. What's more, their husbands don't care for their sexual pleasure. So much so that at times it feels as if they're, only sex objects and therefore their husbands don't know or despise what had sexually pleased them.
There's no magic potion as such to meet the ideal soul mate or ultimate sex partner. Nevertheless, as far as women's sexuality is concern a certain criteria shouldn't be overlooked.
Namely, a man should by all means be seductive and make a woman feel at ease. He shouldn't rush in for sex but keen willing to have it off. Preferably with no qualms concerning his penis and getting aroused when subdued and to enjoy the preacher position. Hence, getting beside himself with lust whenever she strips him naked or fully aroused if watching her strip-teasing. He ought to whisper subtle words at her ears when at it, moaning at climax, surprising her every now and then and thanking her for her surprises.
Moreover, proposing sexual fantasies play up so fulfill them. Last but no least, becoming stomped when she reaches her sexual heightening.
There are other criteria, but three for crying out loud seem likely to pop up more often.
A man should know how to conquer. To seduce a woman is the first step towards arousing her desire. Speaking of seduction strategies are there various, but cunning, security and a good sense of humor are of paramount importance for enhancement of sexual relation.
The second best step is to render a women at ease- when relaxed she would be able to explore her sexuality further, being more openly to new sensation and experiences.
Unhurriedly sex comes third. A man should get busily exploring her erogenous zones, as he ought to know her body much as his own. To say that enticing word she falls for whilst pampering her as deserved.
There hasn't been anything better than foreplay invented for the sake of orgasm reaching as yet. Arguably, foreplay in terms of sexual relation is absolutely imperative.
Most women wished to be treated as a goodness in bed and why not? Not only wished but also well deserved. In contrast, all of which might be just a dream come true, some would say.
The quest for perfection as in fairy tales can turn somewhat frustrating so long as she fails in meeting her prince Charm.
Truly, it boils down to self-initiative, for if she wants to be treated as goodness in bed she ought to do the best she can. However, all should be done within safety boundaries and in compliance with common sense.
To talk openly with sex partner, enabling access to her ideas, feelings and emotions is corner stones for his catching up. So bringing into play all a woman regards pertinent for an unforgettable sex romp.
Bear in mind that a reciprocative approach goes a long way. After all each one of us is responsible for own sexual pleasure.

Kisses,

Jesse~

The Influence Of Senses In The Human Sexuality

A few years ago, I was contacted by a couple that had decided to undergo couple’s therapy in order to solve their sexual qualms. After a handful of sessions, there was being made clear that their sexual life was affected ( undesirous wife versus appetent husband), generating a sexual incompatibility, resulting in a series of complaints and claims from both sides.
The woman said: "when he was potbellied and double chinned he couldn’t care less for sex, but now, that’s all he wants... I’ve always been that way but now he’s begun to bother me". The husband tried to justify himself by saying that he was being like that in function of his work, but since that he’d retired, things have changed. Though, he made a particular remark that called upon my attention: "every night when i go to bed she has this gooey mask on her face and smells of garlic and it is impossible to have sex with such bad breath she’s got; i want a perfumed, appetizing, pretty woman, who i can touch... ". I’m not going to examine the essence of the therapy undertaken by the couple, what i’m going to do is to employ the husband’s phrase that made me write this article to get to the point. I am talking about the "senses".
We name sense to each of the forms to perceive sensations, according to the organs through which we perceive them. Humans possess five senses: sight, smell, taste, touch and hearing. Thus, if the senses are the primary source of communication with the external world, in the sexual intercourse there is the predominance of auditory, olfactory, gustatory, visual and tactile sensations, basically turning the sexual intercourse into a sensorial activity. Someone might say that in the human relations there is a certain predominance of one sense or more over others, and that it differs from gender to gender as well as from culture to culture.
The auditory faculty is of paramount importance for the human communication. To know how to listen to someone is of essence in the human liaisons and sexuality. In our culture women tend to be more susceptible than their male counterparts in relation to sounds, mainly to the human voice and music as well, which influence directly in the sexuality of the couple. I’m used to women complaining of not being heard, and also they would appreciate if their partners whispered romantic words as well as they never say “I love you”.
As for the olfactory sense, it seems to exert a more affective influence in men over sexuality than audition. Havellock ellis remarked that “odors are essentially appropriated to control over our emotional life as to enslave us to them”.
The palate is the only sense, in and as itself, without direct relation in sexuality, however cross-modal.
Therefore, we may say that odors and scents whenever linked up might become either repulsive or attractive( some may enjoy the smell and taste of tobacco and/or alcoholic beverages, others may otherwise).
The sight stands out as the main port of reception and perception of the surroundings. It’s through the sight that we’re able to perceive the sexual characteristics and notions of aesthetics culturally conceived.
In the general consensus men are moved by the looks, as in excitement at the first sight.
When a man ogle an attractive woman, he is actually visualizing her figure, that is to say, he looks at what arouse him and sparks off his sexual fantasies( maybe her hair color, skin complexion, mouth, breasts, back side, eyes, height, or else).
In relation to the sense of touch, it’s said that, the sexual intercourse is in itself a touching act. The biologist conforto has defined it in biological terms “as a contact between two epidermis, and a psychological matching of two fantasies”. Hence, through the skin(erogenous zones) and the one who gets to feel it, we come to experience sensations of intense pleasure. And it then, may determine the very difference between a pleasant experience or otherwise.
The classic philosophy states that nothing reaches our intellect by pass from our senses.
Regardless of which sense predominates in men or women, all senses whether in a bigger or lesser degree come into play in the human sexuality to trigger either positive or negative sensations. Being the senses responsible of all responses of the human sexuality and its outcome.

Kisses,

Jesse~

Sex and Porn

Pornography should be perceived as any given manifestation of sexual content done in whichever media - cinema, theater, literature, television, magazines, art, Internet, etc. Certain definitions emulate the "perverted" and "obscene" that would typical of pornographic manifestations.
Nevertheless, such judgment of prize would disable us to define precisely the current relation of modern society with pornography. Hence this point of view would vary from age to age and depending on the society at hand.
As opposed to the pornographic, eroticism would emulate a sexual representation more subtle and linked to love. It is difficult to establish a boundary between the two types of manifestations, which would depend a lot on "the eye of the beholder" a sexual connotation.
Some people would decline vehemently, for example, a porn magazine. Others, however, consider of extreme beauty the body figures exhibited in such magazines. Given that the judgment of prize-value varies so much, we would be better off if pursued the definition presented initially on what pornography is all about. Otherwise, emerges the conundrum where modern pornography comes from?
Pornography has been about during all the evolution of humanity. Since hominidae begun painting on cave walls, have representations of sexual connotation always been present. As for western pornography, it is strictly connected to the wake of mass-culture, yet in the twentieth century.
In the knock off of the popular choice, the female presence was then highlighted. Thus, movies, magazines, spectacles, turned out to be even spicier with images of sex appeal. There was developed the cult of sex appeal; cinema actresses went on worldwide and sexually desired. Alongside, glossy magazines and merchandising dug into jacking up pinups, merging an attractive female imagery to a fridge, washing machine, soda, etc.
Such injection of visual sexuality did not have just the objective of directly provoking the male consume.
Yet there would appeal to the women's necessity of being desired by men, through imagery that would arouse the male desire and dictate to women their seductive demeanors.
Some may say that this kind of publicity is anything but eroticism. Nonetheless, the transformation of an erotic image into a pornographic-one gets done mentally, beauty lies in "the eye of the beholder" figure of speech. A youngster might masturbate by seeing advertisements of female underwear, for instance.
On the other hand, imagery of sexual relations, employed in sexual education in school, may not spark any interest in the youth. As stated by William Shakespeare in Hamlet - "there is no such a thing as good or bad, but the thought is what so does it.
The difference between pornography and erotica could be sum up in the opposition between the explicit and the implicit. Imagery or histories that had have a plethora of sexual content disclosed without obstacles would be considered pornographic. Whenever a hint of insinuation would be there, such material (film, image, etc) would be an erotic manifestation.
To analyze how we differentiate the so-called pornographic manifestations from those erotic, would aid us to understand how we perceive sex. Sex is not an independent form. It is on "each mind" of each and every human who lives in this planet. And that is why certain people feel pleasure by the sight of feet, others in suffering, some others by having it off with same sex individuals, and others in shagging with the opposite sex, and so on and so forth.

Kisses,

Jesse~

Sex and Issues on Penis Size

Issues on penis size mull over the man's head from time to time. So eager for a bigger sex organ mislead by own misjudgment more often than not.
Misinformation on average measurements and equivocal comparison being major causes of dissatisfaction, which usually lead to performance upheavals confidence undermining, a consequence of low self-esteem.
In men with normal development, the penis usually reaches full-grown size at around the age of sixteen. Given that 80% of penises in erectile state vary between 11cm and 16 cm, averaging 14 cm.
With regards to circumference, an average ranges between 6 cm to 9 cm, assessment likely to be highly subjective, once factors as cold, obesity, anxiety and musclebound tend to retract and shrink it shortening its length. There discrepancies between ethnics not well established whether bigger or smaller yet.
Actually, the vast majority of men not happy with their penises sizewise, have both girth and length in average. Particular situations as fat tissue deposit in the abdomen and pubic region for instance, tend to "hide' the penis. In addition, excessive excision of prepuce skin during fimosis surgery may give it the impression of a smaller penis.
These men require psychological assistance in the sense of building self-esteem and learning to accept themselves within their own stride as it so happens. In select cases, enlargement surgery may be attempted in average sized penises, although complications as impotence, numbness and retraction are likely to occur with disastrous consequences. After surgery, the penis erect loses normal angulations in relation to the pubis, always pointing downwards instead of upwards. Other types of surgeries such as silicone implants, patient's own fast tissue and skin replacement have been put in place, which seldom solve it ultimately, besides bad aesthetical results being usual.
Various devices promise, with no collaterals, extending length and expanding girth in that pumps and pendulums, nevertheless, dubious results not well assessed up gain no approval from urologists. In fact, the penis should be fully hard-on in order to really functioning as copulating organ. If the vagina has roughly 12 cm in average, what is the point of a bigger penis?
Needless to say, those women who would attribute lack of sex linked pleasure to the size of penis are few and far in between. Given that, women, largely, do not hold penetration as the main goal in sexual intercourse. Apart from that, the structures responsible for sexual pleasure in females locate in the third part of the outer vagina and its entrance, so a humungous penis is no use. All the way around, big sized penises usually cause pain and discomfort during sexual intercourse.

Kisses,

Jesse~

Exquisite Sex Relations

Which one is right…to have several sexual partners or only one? The Indians Tupis-Caraibas from the Brazilian hinterland agree on that the tribe chief takes up many wives at the same time, so long as they are all sisters. In certain Asian regions, the situation is somewhat reverse; a group of brothers gets to share the same wife. How is it supposed to explain the existence of kinds of relationship so different from ours? For time being, there used to believe that the family model based on the monogamy marriage, would be the final and superior stage of evolution for the humanity.
Consequently, the polygamy- marriage of a man with several women or a woman with several men- should match the remnants of an inferior type of family, which would have been about thousand of years a go. There used to be called “group marriage” or “sexual promiscuity” to namely such hypothetic pre-historic stage. After some time there was found that the family based on monogamy marriage was no privilege of those civilized-ones. It existed and still exists in most varied regions of the world. Although, with a higher frequency rate than in any other form of familial organization.
To pinpoint it on “primitive” societies seems common-place. It happens to be the case of the Nhambiquara, who are nomadic Indians of the Brazilian hinterland. In their midst, the strings that attach husband, wife and sons being extremely similar to those observed in the so-called “civilized” society.
In face of “well-behaved savages” as such, it turn out a lot harder to keep on talking about survival of the pre-historic family. Thus it was bizarre to concede that our conception of family was neither exclusive invention, nor the only way likely to regulate the rapport between the sexes and procreation. The predominance of monogamist marriage gets explained, above all, by a question of demographic equilibrium. The amount of men and women, in any given human population, tends to be approximately the same, unless exceptional conditions come to alter such proportion.
Yet polygamy may spring out in societies whereupon a restrict number of individuals gets to accumulate power and prestige sufficiently to “monopolize” the women as of the younger and most desirable. It’s significant that, in most “primitive” groups, being the polygamy privilege exclusive of chiefs. It’s interesting the example of the Naires, group which inhabits the Malabar Coast, in India. Bygone years, the war was the man’s primarily activity. It did not let them to constitute family. Thus marriage was a ceremony of symbolic meaning, which did not create any permanent bond between a man and a woman. The only unity for stable parenthood was constituted by a woman, her brothers and her sons.
The family and sexual relations have changed a lot in the world. Currently it’s commonplace finding families constituted by several different manners-with absence of both mother and father, sons being raised by next of kin, etc. Also it’s commonly found diverse sexual options. Some people prefer to have several sexual partners. Others would rather get involved with only one person.
What’s right and what’s wrong? There’s no answer to this question. Those “exquisite” familial and sexual relations come to show us how much of the behavioral diversity and demeanors lies within it. The important is the person feeling good about oneself and practice sex that is healthy.

Kisses,

Jesse~

Group Sex

I was researching information on group sex last night and came across this article. If any of you ever thought about doing the whole group sex or orgy thing then I definitely think you should read this article and take notes... lol.

Group sex, a rather anonymous sexual practice. But why this happens? Absolutely, dealing with sex and sexuality pertaining issues often includes difficulty, taboos and preconceived ideas. Forcibly, not every one feels fit to talk about this kind of subject. And that's the reason why there still exists, at present days, difficulty so evident in kid's education.
Even with the wake of sexual revolution, long time ago, our society, still brings expressive remnants of concerns about sex, and its forms of providing pleasure. We're sick and tired of knowing that when it come s to sex, we're referring to the human nature, a instinctive power that is born with the being detached of any kind of rule or limitation.
But rational being we are, and thus we need to develop within a society, which includes family, school and work that surely will impose us rules. However, there wouldn't be because of such that the power of our desires should be eliminated. A human being has his desires, sexual fantasies, and each one with his life stories, with his expectations, wills and even curiosities about sexual practices. There may or may not be accepted by people, but exists for sure. Therein lies the reason for this article, group sex.
Doubtless, group sex is motive for a great deal of curiosity, which these days could already be satiated by discreet manner. After all, the subject in itself brings about known taboos.
The internet is means ideal for this sort of information, for there are sites that expose it in clear and informative manner. On which point leaving the person in anonymity, without feeling exposed and with doubts clarified somehow.
Group sex is anything but sexual fantasy, which mulls over people's heads until sassing out their will. But such sexual fantasy can also come followed by fears and concerns like "could I be normal"? 'would my sexual desires be absurd?" so far, and it happens exactly because we live in a society full of cultural and religious values, which would never admit this kind of sexual relation.
It's rather complicated to deal with this sort of situation that places in confront desires. A sexual fantasy of sexual practice that isn't accepted by most people, after all undermine, suppressing a desire isn't something that goes well with a human being.
We are referring here to a sexual desire that is healthy since within an existing reality and there's a lot of people adept to group sex.
People seek relationships of better quality so that more prone to fulfill their sexual fantasies and kick in more dialogue with sex partners as well as further exchanging experiences. It can only improve relationships.
By the way, it's worth mentioning that whoever opts for such sexual practice may suffer consequences whether personal-as in deception for this maybe not as expected, or arising interpersonal conflicts.
Thus, group sex for those willing to experiment might be either good or bad. For all I care, it's important that those involved in don't do it only for the sake of others' sexual delight.

Kisses,

Jesse~

Sex + Games = ???

This is an article that I wanted to share with you all today.

There could be said that sex games encompass all if not innumerous manners of sexual conquest as well as employment of subtleties as to warm up or boost sexual relation.
The practice of sexual conquest employed by both genders whose main goal would be sexual intercourse is extremely varied. There might last a few hours, days, or even weeks, consisting at times in a seduction game of rather elaborated structure.Likewise, the animal kingdom, such complex mating ritual between male and female, being the courtship fundamental condition for copula and sexual performance may translate a multitude of sex and seduction games.
Flirting, making a pass on, candle lit dinner, gifts, dance, languid gaze, clothing and accessories, scents, hairdos amongst others, all of which make part of the seduction game. Romanticism is fundamental. Arguably, all so far described make up the first set of the game. Its second set would be sexual intercourse.
Getting to know one another, expectations and preferences of both when catching up with differences, so sex game can go on. During sex, foreplay is corner stones, a good sense of humor is mustdo at any rate, fulfilling sexual fantasies in mutual agreement, wearing accessories and sex toys for mutual satisfaction and arousal will likely to heighten sexual relation even further.
“So far so good” says the proverb. For such a proverb come true within the sexuality context, much as in sexual games, it’s crucial that after conquest the art of seduction keeps on going. The game must be carried on so that sexual relation can grow from strength to strength and thus enrich.
Incredible as it might seem this looks like the hardest part. Many men and women, after being seduced or accomplishing seduction ended up by pushing it aside.
Apparently, accordingly to clinical practice, in feeling overconfident they reckoned that they’d somehow wind up overestimating such sexual practice.
We’re talking about routine that root in any given relationship regardless of duration, which renders relationships predicable and sometimes stuck in a root.
Routine sets in unnoticed, so a great many people complain that seemingly something missing in their relations.
When talking about sexual games we’re referring to a whole set of factors pertaining to a sexual relation. Just as in conquering is vital that all comes into play as a way of spicing up a couple’s relationship. Being creative, imaginative, joyful with each other are some of the ways to keep harmony in. Seduction should be tender continuously. Sexual games are here to stay if sexual relation is to be kept alive.

So lets try to remember to have fun as well as get off, he he.

Kisses,

Jesse~

Spice Up The Missionary Position

The missionary position is a tried and true sex position that is used as a good old standard. You know what to expect, she knows what’s coming and both of you are comfortable and satisfied. This very mundane position works well when needed so don’t retire it just yet -- it can be modified. You can make what’s old new again.So when the standard missionary just won’t do, here are some satisfying maneuvers to keep your partner satisfied and aroused (not to mention impressed) by your ingenuity.

The Jack Hammer

The name says it all. With a penetrating, downward maneuver you control the speed, depth and force of penetration. Your partner lies on her back with a leg on each of your shoulders. It would be wise to make sure she’s limber enough and up for this kind of action. Kneel, placing your knees beside her waist. The next step is easy: Lean forward and ravish her. If needed, rest your hands on top of her thighs to steady and control the movement. Initially, you’ll want to make sure she’s alright in this position, as you can cause some discomfort if she is unused to stretching in such a way.

Rocking the Cradle

With a gentle motion you can rock her world. With you on top there isn’t much your partner can do to add sensation to this position besides relax and contract her vaginal muscles. The brunt of the “work” is done by you. Lie on top of her and place her legs up over your shoulders while you rock back and forth. Some upper-body stamina is required. Firm foot placement is also a necessity to help you rock and pleasure your partner with the intoxicating motion. But make sure you don’t crush her with your weight or flatten her legs to her body. She won’t appreciate the novelty of being “rocked in a cradle” if she feels trapped underneath you.

Bicycle

While this one may take a bit more choreography, the pleasure is certainly worth the few extra seconds it takes to bend and place your bodies in delicious ways. Have your girl lie back on the bed and place her right leg on your right shoulder. Bend her left leg and place it beside your right side. Ease forward into the honey pot and feel the sweet sensation. For some added stimulation, your partner can use her free hands for a little clit rub or to stimulate you.

Golden Gate Bridge

The only time you’ll want this bridge to fall is when she’s overcome with a heavy, pulsating orgasm. Place her on her back with a comfy, fluffy pillow under her shoulders. Kneel between her legs, keeping your knees bent at 90 degrees and guide her up toward you with your hands under her waist. Position her vagina in line with your penis and insert. Use short thrusts to penetrate and ignite her senses. She can aid you by wrapping her hands around the backs of your legs to keep you close. Long, sweeping thrusts are not recommended as your control over the motion will be compromised and the position could be lost. This might become frustrating, so keep with the short strokes -- unless you are simply too well-hung to lose your way.

Coital Alignment Technique

If you want to experience her writhing in pleasure beneath you, check this position out. CAT (coital alignment technique) focuses on the alignment of both you and your partner’s pelvic bones, which enables the base of your penis to rub against her clitoris. As she lies on her back, place yourself on top and enter her. Slide a couple of inches up to align your pelvic bone with hers and this will ensure the base of your penis is rubbing against her clit. Use an upward and downward sweeping motion. This is not the time to use regular in-and-out thrusting. Both of you should have your legs straight out and positioned beside or on top of one another. Your girl can bring you in deeper by wrapping her legs around your calves. Don’t forget to touch and kiss her body as this deviation from straight missionary allows for great sensual body-on-body contact.

missionary fun

Digressing a bit from the norm is a healthy and exciting foray into sexual practice and pleasure. There is nothing wrong with the missionary position; however, you can liven up your sex life by introducing alternatives to everyday routines. Modest changes can yield fiery results. Have fun and play with your partner by taking old favorites and making them new again.

Just thought I would help you all spice up this oldie but goodie sex position... when I read this article I just had to share it with you all.

Kisses,

Jesse~

6 Rear-Entry Positions

Whether you're a fan of the anal or vaginal canal, sex from behind can provide for some of the best sex you'll ever have. And contrary to popular opinion, women enjoy this position just as much as men do.Today's tip is going to add a little gusto to the rear-entry position. If you weren't yet aware of it, something as simple as moving her leg slightly or angling your penis differently can turn your "bend over" into a roller coaster ride of orgasms.The original rear-entry position involves the woman on all fours and the man (that would be you) behind her on his knees, holding onto her hips as he penetrates her. But we're going to change all that.So without further ado, here are six ways to add a little kick to your doggie stylin'.
1- The tight grip

If your woman has great balancing capabilities, then you're in for a great treat. Your woman starts off on her hands and knees, like she normally would for the rear-entry position. The catch is that when you place your hands on her waist, your objective is to lift her legs up so that her feet are against your butt (OK that's not really your objective, but you know what I mean).Although this may be difficult at first, the sensations this position provides are enough to keep you going -- or coming, as the case may be. In this position, penetrate her slowly and deeply.
2- The leg spread

With her lying on her stomach with her legs straight and closed, straddle on top of her. Your legs should also be stretched out, and somewhat spread. Your arms should be straight and holding you up. Make your way in and keep in mind that this position works best with deep, slow penetration.And if you feel like getting romantic, bend your elbows and kiss her mouth. She will, however, have to meet you halfway.
3- Deep penetration

Again, she lies down on her stomach, but this time her legs are spread open and her knees are bent (her feet should be in the air).Using your hands for support, straddle her slowly at first, but make sure your legs are together. This allows for deep penetration, and whether you thrust slowly or quickly, I can virtually guarantee that both you and she will achieve monumental orgasms.To add variation to this position, simply angle her thighs in different ways.

4- The chair bend over

Finally, props! Bend your woman over on a chair and have her lean on it with her elbows facing the spine of the chair. Enter her from behind and, with your left hand, lift her left leg and place it on your hip.Again, if you like deep penetration, then this position will take you far. To avoid injury or pain, place pillows under your and her knees. This will allow both of you to concentrate on the pleasure and not your cracking bones.
5- Stand and bang

For this position, you should both be on your feet, preferably in front of a mirror. Have her lean against the wall, office desk, etc., with her hands, and make your way behind her and inside her. You can use your hands to hold her waist, lean against the wall, or even play with her clitoris.The mirror will add more appeal to the position, as she will be able to look at you as you're doing your thing. As well, you get to see the look on her face as she reaches her climax.
6- The sideway insert

In this position, your woman should lie on her side (either side), lean on one elbow, and bring her legs forward. Lean on your hands, placing one on either side of her, and stretch your legs out as you place yourself inside.As well, you can opt to bend your knees and hold one of her legs up in the air (and possibly place it on your shoulder). This position provides more control over your thrusting.Or, you can always spoon it. Leaving her in the aforementioned position, make your way directly behind her, also leaning on your side, and press your body against hers as you thrust your way in.

keep it new...

You can opt to try one of these positions every session, or indulge in all six in one sitting. Whatever you decide, remember that the slightest variation can immensely change a position and the sensations it provides.

Kisses,

Jesse~

5 Female Secrets Part 2

Sorry for the delay, I was a little busy the last few days. Here ya go with the rest of the secrets of us female creatures, lol.

secret 3
She thinks fingers can be unpleasant

When using your digits to pleasure your woman, just remember that the entrance to the vagina has a large number of nerve endings compared to deeper inside the vagina -- use this knowledge to your advantage. The point is to give her pleasure, so keep to the pleasure zones: the outside entrance to the vagina, just inside the vagina and the G-spot. When manually stimulating her start off with one finger, and after tickling the outside entrance, gently and wetly enter her body. Start stroking in a come-hither motion on the front wall of her vagina. Here you will find her G-spot. Be gentle; if she wants you to go deeper or harder she will show you by pushing herself onto you. It can get a little uncomfortable for her to have half a hand jamming and slamming away, so always ask before putting another finger in and avoid trying to reach her cervix. Clean, trimmed fingernails are lovely; mucky claws and paws need not apply.

secret 4
She likes trying new things

There are many things she has always wanted to try, but may never have felt comfortable enough to ask for or to initiate. Things she may be afraid of include: anal sex, anal fingering (you or her), bondage, fisting, outdoor sex, and role playing. None of these are as hard core as you both might think; ordinary people do them all the time with very nice results. A fun and easy way to find out what new things she wants to try out is to swap a sexual to-do list with her. Each of you writes a list of things you would like to try together, then swap it and get busy.

secret 5
She’s horny in the morning

Guys and morning wood have been waking sleeping women since the dawn of time. Generally, it can be safely ignored by the not-so-keen woman by pretending to be asleep. If you want to try a different tack, try sliding your moist erection gently between her thighs, just brushing her vaginal lips. Take a little bit of time, and sure enough, just like a beautiful flower, she will (hopefully) open up and let you in because you are unobtrusively enticing her. The trick to morning sex is getting her from sound asleep to highly aroused before 8 a.m. Oral sex also works very well, but the thigh trick is less effort; do what works best for you. A tip is to moisten your penis before doing anything with it. Saliva or lube works; it takes the hard work out of it for you and replaces that “I just woke up and you're mauling me” feeling with “Oh, that feels nice.” Not everyone is a morning-sex fan, so if your girl isn’t too keen on an early morning rise and shine, there are some easy steps you can take to encourage her without making a scene.

sexy secrets

There are many other things that women secretly like or dislike, but every woman is different and so are her secret loves and hates. Another way to find out these secrets is to play games. There are board games that encourage some out of the ordinary interaction; this is great for learning how to communicate better with your partner, and for finding out things you would never have thought to ask. Don’t forget: The best sex is always had by partners who can honestly discuss what they want.

Kisses,
Jesse~