5 Female Sex Secrets

There are many things that men don’t know about women’s wants in the bedroom. It’s not because men don’t care, it’s just because the subject either hasn’t come up or she’s too shy to offer you this information. While every woman is different, there are some things all women can generally agree on when it comes to sex.
Because couples who communicate their needs and desires have far better sex more often, you should encourage her to talk about the things she wants. In the meantime, to get you started, we’re giving you five feel-good secrets she’s been hiding.

Secret 1
She likes period sex
Generally, this is true, but there are rules. It can tend to get very wet very quickly; throwing a sausage down Niagara Falls may be a more appropriate description. And make sure you are both showered and clean. The other problem you may face is temporary vaginal dryness. If she uses tampons, expect a little uncomfortable friction after she removes it to have sex, and prepare by having some lube handy. She will warm up pretty quickly, but dry sex is painful and unpleasant, so don’t blow your future chances by being too forthright in the entering department. The bonus of period sex is she is likely to be quite randy -- hormones make this a positive (but obstacle-laden) time for nookie. Don’t try to go down on her unless you have a death wish or share morbid vampire fantasies because she will knock you out of the way faster than you can say “What’s that taste?”

Secret 2
She doesn’t like never-ending sex
This is faking-it territory. Don’t believe the hype: Being the man means being a man and knowing when to just sit back and relax and enjoy the fruits of your labor. A happy girl on your hands is great, so don’t blow your own rep by trying to prove yourself. Yes, love machines exist, but aren’t they wired to just keep on pounding away? Aren’t they made of plastic and rubber? Women want a lover, not a love machine. Women adore orgasms as much as the next man, but one is good -- just make it count. Two is a bonus (but the bonus need not include strenuous and lengthy attempts to achieve) and after that, well that all depends on the situation. Know when to relax into her arms and enjoy the smell of her hair. No doubt, if she is still up for it she will -- in no uncertain terms -- let you know.


I think I will wait until tomorrow to tell ya about the other three sex secrets of women… he he.

Kisses,
Jesse~

Cyber-Sex in Look Who's Watching

Look Who's Watching a new movie a friend of mine recently told me about is breaking the XXX industry's cyber cherry. I say it is about time!

"Isn't web-cam sex a little creepy and impersonal?" asks Van Damage in Sinsation Pictures' latest release, Look Who's Watching. Directed by award-winner Wesley Emerson from a script by Martin Brimmer, the movie explores the world of online perversion.
"The basic premise is that Van Damage is going around to different websites, and he finds these two girls played by Kimberly Kane and Lindsey Meadows," Emerson explained. "They keep teasing him with these web-cam shows, and finally they tell him he can join in - on the condition that he find two more girls and have sex with them on the internet."
Eventually, Shy Love, Regan Anthony, Alexa Lynn and Faith Leon all join the cyber-daisy chain, with able-bodied assistance from Richard O'Neal, Reno and Brad Hardy.
"Look Who's Watching was one of those shows where every scene was hot," the director said. "I teamed up Kimberly and Lindsey in a strap-on scene - they had never worked together before, and they just tore it apart. After that, they did a threesome with Van Damage that was even better. I also had a lot of fun with this one because I was able to program computers on set to play back footage I'd shot earlier in the day."
Does Emerson consider web-cam sex "creepy and impersonal"?
"No," he laughed. "I think it can be hot and nasty. The world needs more hot sex!"
I can not wait to see this movie. I will be sure to fill you all in on the details. What surprises me most however, is that there are not more XXX movies with the whole web cam world flavor being made. This is a growing form of entertainment. There are so many different aspects about the web cam world that have not been put out in the public eye. I think that the web cam world got a bad start and reputation. I urge people to have a look for themselves and then decide whether it is for them or not.

Kisses,
Jesse~

Men and Women ask Questions about Self Pleasure

I was reading this article about the most common questions amongst men, women, and couples regarding masturbation.

Women often ask: Why is he so into porn?

Some women consider a mate's taste for pornography a form of infidelity or betrayal. That may be true, but most men who view porn by themselves use it to spice up their fantasies during masturbation. One's own fantasies can get old and stale, especially if one masturbates frequently. Porn provides substitute fantasies. To get some idea of how men feel about porn and masturbation, women should consider this: Have you ever felt sexually aroused by Mel Gibson, Tom Cruise, Brad Pitt or some other hunky movie star on the big screen? Have you ever fantasized sex with that person? Has that fantasy threatened or cheapened your relationship, betrayed your spouse or implied some deep dissatisfaction with him? Probably not. It's a mistake for a woman to infer that a man's enjoyment of or need for porn implies any dissatisfaction with her or the quality of the sex in the relationship. Usually, porn is simply fuel for his fantasies during masturbation.

Many men ask: She's so into her vibrator. Will it replace me?

Highly unlikely. See the previous answers. Masturbation rarely replaces partner sex. It's a sign of a robust sexual appetite, something many men think women lack.
Far from feeling threatened by vibrators and other sex toys, men would do well to welcome them into partner sex. True, they can do something you cannot -- provide extra-intense sensations. But so what? Is a carpenter less skilled because he uses power tools? When a woman feels sexually fulfilled, she's happy with her lover, even if he uses a power tool to help get the job done. Sex toys are not competition in bed for men; they are helpful companions. They're fun. And many women deeply appreciate a man who is willing to include vibrators and other toys in partner sex. (Don't forget to use some lubricant.)

A related question that is also often asked: Now that we're in a committed relationship, why does he/she still feel the need to masturbate? Isn't it juvenile? Immature?

Woody Allen described masturbation as sex with someone you truly love. Like partner sex, masturbation involves genital fondling. But masturbation is fundamentally different from partner sex. Solo sex is its own special pleasure and shouldn't really be compared to partner sex. Masturbation is just about everyone's original sexuality. Men were masturbating long before they met their spouses. (Women, too.) It's fun, fulfilling and relaxing. So why stop when you move in together or say "I do"? Some people believe that masturbation should not be necessary for people who are coupled, that each spouse should meet all of the other's sexual needs. But according to sex and relationship expert Pepper Schwartz, a professor of sociology at the University of Washington in Seattle, this view is naive. Spouses cannot meet each other's needs for the self-pleasuring they have enjoyed all their lives, which is by definition a solo activity. In addition, masturbation comes in handy when you feel an erotic impulse but your spouse isn't there or isn't in the mood, or when you want an orgasm quickly without having to concern yourself with your partner's pleasure.
Masturbation is neither infantile nor immature, and it's definitely not just for singles. It's an inheritance from youth that stays good -- and often gets better -- in adulthood whether you're single or coupled.
I remember asking very similar questions in the past to my partners. I can count myself as lucky I suppose to have had very open lovers in my past. Now, with what I do for a living, my lovers are required to be open minded. Masturbation is a huge part of my life and the people I choose as well as those that choose to be in my life must be ok with this. I have been lucky to have very sexually open friends and lovers.

Kisses,
Jesse~

Seven Styles of Sex – Type 7

Finally here is the 7th style of sex and I might add one I practice every day. One other aspect about pervy sex is you can do it cyber style! I love it. So with out further adieu, I present to you one of my all time favorite styles of sex. Enjoy!

SEX TYPE #7: PERVY(Fantasy Sex)

Sometimes your sex life is good but a little too predictable. You might even have sex every day, but if it’s always foreplay-then-missionary-then-The Daily Show, it’s time to break some new ground. The good news: She’s probably anxious to mix it up, too. So pick a night, any night, and just trick things up. Introduce a tube of lube or a vibrator, get her more comfortable with doggy-style—get experimental. “It’s important to change things every once in a while,” says Gallagher. “Surprises are what make the difference between a good sex life and a great one.”Put a little planning into the night—perhaps a little porn to kick things off?—and before you slide into bed, entice your girlfriend with word of the surprise to come. She’ll be putty in your hands—women love surprises! (Warning: Surprise should not have hooves.) Talk the talk while making the move, something like, “It’s really exciting to try new things with you. It makes me feel even closer to you.” This will help her to frame the night as a bonding experience—so how could she say no?“One of the best things about my relationship is that my boyfriend can gauge when we need to change things up in bed,” says Veronique, 26. “One night the elevator in our building was out, so we had to take the stairs. Halfway up, my boyfriend sat down and pulled me down with him. He gave me this sweet look with a devilish little smile and started unzipping his pants. I knew this was going straight to headville, and I was on board. Now ‘the elevator is out’ is code word for a b.j.”And they boinked happily ever after.

Ahhh, I love when there is a Happy Ending… he he, no pun there eh?

Kisses,
Jesse~

Seven Styles of Sex – Type 6

SEX TYPE #6: STUDLY

(Marathon Sex)

It happens all the time at the beginning of a relationship, and not nearly enough once you’ve been dating someone for a while. You spend an entire day (or maybe two) buck naked in bed, alternately lounging and screwing. “All-day sex makes me feel like we’re the only two humans on the planet,” says Heather, 21. “And it gives you time to take turns totally indulging each other, because you know there’ll be plenty of time to reciprocate.” The perfect time for one of these sexfests is when the two of you haven’t been spending enough time together lately—like when one of you has been away on a business trip or working long hours at the sleep deprivation clinic.Planning? Nah—the beauty of all-day nooky is that it’s best served spontaneously. Just wake up on a Saturday morning and tell her all you want to do today is ravage her. What woman won’t blow off her manicure appointment, brunch, and shopping with friends for that? Or better yet, the two of you can call in sick. You should constantly be touching, stroking, tickling. Since you have so much time, try doing the things you usually only do for a minute for much, much longer—like sucking on her earlobe, rubbing her stomach, or kissing her back and legs. Think of it as an entire day of foreplay with lots of sex in between.“Since you’ll be talking between takes, ask her what she likes—and then do it to her 15 minutes later,” says Gallagher. One thing to keep in mind: Each time you reinitiate sex, she is going to be more sensitive, so using some artificial lubrication from the get-go is key. Keep a quality brand—K-Y Silk-e is a good one—in a bedside drawer. I like Eros better than KY products because it is so long lasting and feels the closest to natural lubrication. It is a bit on the pricey side but well worth it and you only need to use a very little compared to most of the other lubrication products on the market today.

Kisses,

Jesse~

Seven Styles of Sex – Type 5

I decided to change the title of this continuous blog because using the word “Kinds” is just so wrong… anywhooo, here is number 5… enjoy.

SEX TYPE #5: SAPPY(Romantic Sex)

If tonight happens to be a special occasion, or you just came this close to breaking up, no other kind of sex will do. A sweet, languorous roll in the hay reminds your girlfriend that in spite of your occasional screwups and general lack of maturity, you are nonetheless worthy of her love. See, even daring women who like spanking, bondage, horses, you name it, crave romantic sex. It makes them feel connected to you and secure in their relationship.Cinematic kissing is the cornerstone, so start by laying your lips on her mouth, neck, collarbone, palms, and anywhere else you can think of. One move girls swear by is to lean her back, supporting her with one arm as if you were dipping her, then lifting her shirt to kiss every inch of her breasts. All in good time, lay her back onto the bed and focus excessive attention between her legs—and for once, resist her attempts to pull you into man-on-top action. “Knowing that he wants me to just be still while he kisses and touches me all over is the most romantic thing in the world,” says Janine, 25. Think Harlequin romance novel; think soap opera. When her eyes are closed, believe it or not, you become Brad Pitt. So act like it.This is no time to break out Assmasters IV. Pick a position that’s intimate—face-to-face, with nobody’s ankles up behind their ears. Have her sit on top of you so you’re facing each other and her legs are wrapped around you. “This position allows you deep penetration while forcing you to take it slow,” says Joannides. Hold her in a loose hug as she grinds against you in a steady, hypnotic rhythm; continue to kiss her face and chest, if only to distract yourself from blowing too soon. When you’re both yearning for a greater range of motion, roll her over and continue in the missionary position, whispering sweet things in her ear. “What makes sex extra romantic is when a guy looks at me while we’re having sex and tells me how beautiful I am and how good it feels to be with me,” says Kristi, 28. Remember: Prove you can pull it off the nice way and she’ll feel confident giving it to you down-and-dirty later.

I hope you all are taking notes of this most valuable information… or even trying some of these tips out… I would love to hear about your experiences… hint hint… he he.

Stay tuned for #6 tomorrow.

Kisses,
Jesse~

Seven Styles of Sex – Type 4

SEX TYPE #4: QUICKIE

(Fast and Sneaky Sex)

Because of the added danger of humiliation, disgrace, and possible imprisonment, the prospect of a quickie—in the bathroom at a party, under a blanket at the beach, on her office desk over the weekend—is guaranteed to get a girl extra excited. “Women love to be surprised by their boyfriends in forbidden places,” says Gallagher. “The fact that we’re breaking rules makes us so hot.” This is the kind of balls-to-the-wall encounter that she’s going to brag about to her friends the next day and remember fondly five years down the road, simply because it was so risqué. Warning: It’s the thought of danger—not real danger—that turns her on; going down on her while she’s driving on a crowded highway or doing it on a conference table when her boss is around is out of the question. The trick is to choose a relatively safe, secluded, but theoretically accessible location and then let lawlessness reign.Strategy? You don’t have much time, so you’re going to have to get her hot and bothered in a jiffy. “Talking to me is key if you’re going to try and persuade me to slip into a closet and do the nasty within the next five minutes,” says Francesca, 29. “Say something like, ‘You know what I would like to do? Take you into that room, pull up your skirt, and shove my tongue between your legs.’” A little frenzied, whispered graphic description will get her mind in the gutter fast. If her response to your wicked suggestion is positive, don’t waste a second. Start by kissing her frantically and pawing her like it’s your last five minutes on Earth. Skip her breasts altogether, yank down her pants, and lick where it counts (or have her rub-a-dub her nub) to turn her on and get her wet simultaneously.As much fun as she’ll be having, don’t expect her to hit her inner high before you do—or even at all. Most women can’t come during a quickie, but that’s OK. “I need a lot of stimulation to orgasm, which takes a lot of time,” says Crystal, 22. “But having his johnson inside me for even five minutes midday is plenty gratifying.”
Aren’t these great??? I love them.

Kisses,
Jesse~

Seven Kinds of Sex – Type 3

SEX TYPE #3:

RUTTY(Animal Sex)

Just because women are fundamentally hungry for romance doesn’t mean they don’t also want to be naughty. How can you tell when your woman is in the mood to reenact a Mickey Rourke movie? Pay attention to what she’s wearing. If she’s sporting a low-cut shirt with a push-up bra and heels, she’s probably had wild sex in the back of her mind since the second she woke up that morning. Just ask Lisa, 25. “When I’m horny, I definitely dress more suggestively and drink more heavily,” she admits. “I want to let go and get a little nuts sexually.”Obviously, you want with every bone in your body to encourage this bad behavior. So when you see her, sneak your hand playfully between her knees under the table, unbutton her top button in the cab, or grab her from behind as she walks up the stairs. When you’re finally alone, do something you’ve never done before—whether it’s tying a blindfold around her eyes or slipping a hand down the back of her pants—to send the message that tonight is going to be extra wild. “Down and dirty sex is all about putting your mouth, fingers, and other body parts everywhere they don’t belong. It makes me feel like an out-of-control, lust- ridden animal,” says Nina, 29. “And it has to come on fast. A guy should be a little aggressive, a little impatient.”Asking naughty questions during sex is also a good way to get edgy. “When a guy starts asking me if I’d like to do kinky stuff, it works two ways,” says Carrie, 27. “First off, it gets me horny, but more importantly, it makes me feel like I’ll have some control over the stuff that’s going to happen—because he’s asking me, not barking at me.” If she’s got you in a dog collar, though, feel free to bark.
I think this is probably my favorite type of sex. I wonder if there is a T-Shirt out there somewhere that I can buy that says “Rutty Sex” on it? Hmm, I feel like shopping… he he.

Kisses,
Jesse~

Seven Kinds of Sex – Type 2

Ok ready for type number 2 of our seven different kinds of sex guide??? Here ya go, enjoy.

SEX TYPE #2: SLEEPY(Morning Sex)

Maybe you woke up in the middle of the night to find your girlfriend’s bottom nestled happily against the lead pipe between your legs. Or maybe you’re both curled up on the couch on a rainy Sunday afternoon when you awaken to notice her nipples popping up to say hi through her white cotton tank top. Yes, you’re barely conscious, but that’s no reason to deprive yourselves of carnal pleasure. And even if girls are too tired to show it, they often want sleepy sex, too. The key: We don’t want to have to work for it.So the idea is to get her aroused before she has a chance to declare that she’s too, uh, bushed. “The best thing about slumber sex is when a few seemingly innocent little touches under the covers lead to a surprisingly big turn-on,” says Gallagher. Assuming you’re already lying down next to her, take Gallagher’s advice and start by letting your dominant hand slide under her clothes, teasing her nipples with little strokes and playing with her curlicues. Caress where the bottoms of her butt cheeks meet the tops of her thighs, teasing her into a lazy tizzy. When you feel her giving in (body gets limp, breathing gets heavier), start to inch her pajama bottoms down to mid-thigh.In the movies you’d roll on top of her at this point, but that frankly sounds like a lot of effort. The easiest way to seal the deal in a sleepy state of mind is to cuddle up spoon-style and enter her from behind. “This position requires the least energy because neither of you is bearing the weight of your own body or the other person’s,” says Paul Joannides, author of Guide to Getting It On. Katie, 26, agrees. “I love this because it feels dirty,” she gushes. “It’s like you’re barely conscious and he’s in control.” Bonus: For once she won’t care if you nod off immediately after getting off.
Get ready for number 3… I really think you all are going to like number 3, I know I certainly did… he he.

Kisses,Jesse~

The Seven Kinds of Sex

Once upon a…actually, every time a bedroom opportunity presents itself, the potential for mind-blowing, body-rocking sex is there. Ah, but what kind of sex? Depending on where you are and what kind of mood you’re in when the urge to merge hits you, you two could opt for porn-star shagging, an all-business quickie in the supply closet, or a romantic weekend playing “explorer” in each other’s pants. It’s knowing what to do in each situation that separates the men from the boys.
As my friend Jeanine says, “A guy who’s amazing in bed knows when to be wild and experimental, when to be slow and sweet, and when to just grab me and bend me over something sturdy.” In other words, different pokes demand different strokes, and having a strategy for whatever comes your way can make the difference between a fantastic experience and a mediocre one. Read on and master the grand slam of sex scenarios. Collect all seven!

SEX TYPE #1: NOPEY(No-Sex Sex)

Well, maybe “no-intercourse sex” is a better name. Thanks to a cruel and unjust God, sometimes one party is horny and the other ain’t. Or maybe you just went at it in the shower solo (“But Buffy was on…”), or she’s riding the crimson tide…There are lots of hideous possibilities. “Mismatched libidos happen all the time in relationships,” says Melinda Gallagher, founder of CAKE, a trendy sex entertainment company for women. “It doesn’t mean there’s something horribly wrong.” Begrudgingly agreeing to sex leads to resentment; denying it leads to frustration. But there’s a wonderful middle ground, in which the “not tonight” party lavishes his or her full nongenital attention on the horndog. Skipping intercourse every once in a while in favor of manual or oral makes for mouth-watering sex later on, when you’re both in the mood.Even getting him- or herself off can be an erotic experience for the hornier party, as long as the other party acts as willing voyeur. “Most women will be a little shy at first, but being able to masturbate in front of a man is a hugely liberating experience,” says Gallagher. “To make her comfortable, make yourself a part of the action by touching her breasts, licking her inner thighs, or placing your hand over hers.”“My boyfriend and I live together, so we have sex all the time,” says Cheryl, 31. “Every once in a while, I need a release and he’s tapped out. When that happens he’ll do this great thing where he’ll tell me how hot it is to watch me, and he’ll coach me all the way. Best part: Sometimes he gets so horny watching, we have sex! We both win!”
I think I will wait until tomorrow to give you another type.

Kisses,
Jesse~

Web Cam Sexiness…

Well now let me tell you about tonight’s web cam fun… One of my online friends had a birthday party online and got absolutely down and dirty on web cam tonight. I would say with in ten minutes most of the females in the web cam chat room were fully nude and playing with themselves. Vibrators and other sex toys were out for the viewing pleasure of all the web cammers.
I was definitely being turned on by what I was seeing. I finally relaxed and joined in the sexy fun. I brought out my sexy toy collection and started playing with myself. I was sitting in my chair with both of my legs up and over the arms of my chair. I had the web cam angled perfectly in view of my wet little pussy. I started with only my fingers rubbing all around my clit and then sliding them into my wet little hole and out again. Eventually, I grabbed my pink vibrator and inserted it into my pussy slowly and deeply so as to tease my viewers. I was so wet and horny that after a while I could not help myself from orgasming. I continued on though and found that I was working up to another orgasm. I slowed my pace and teased myself as well as my viewers for at least twenty minutes before orgasming again. I was thoroughly enjoying myself.
One of my favorite things to do when I am on web cam and playing with myself is to watch the faces of my viewers. I love to see their expressions as I masturbate. They get so into it. I love it. I especially love when they start to play with themselves along with me. It is such a turn on to watch them stroking their cocks or rubbing their pussies. I get so wet watching others masturbate. When they explode into orgasm I almost always end up orgasming also. There is something about knowing that I turned someone on so much that they orgasm watching me. I can not explain how good it makes me feel to know I have pleasured someone while pleasuring myself. It is such a rush. Wow, just thinking about it is getting me hot all over again. I think I better go take care of my horny little pussy again. Care to join me?

Kisses,
Jesse~

I want just one night with this man....

Matthew McConaughey frequently photographed shirtless and exercising on the beach is People magazine's "bachelor of the year."
"I love warm weather and summertime," the 37-year-old actor says in the magazine's "Hottest Bachelors" issue, on newsstands Friday. "What better way to enjoy it than at the beach, where few people wear shirts?"
When asked how he maintains his muscular build, McConaughey says: "I don't really have a workout regimen I follow. I just live my life. My goal is to break a sweat each day."
McConaughey, whose screen credits include "We Are Marshall," "Failure to Launch" and "Sahara," has high standards when it comes to the ladies.
"What I look for in a woman is what I love to call the `two Hs' hotness and humor," he says. "But to be honest, a woman with a good sense of humor is always hot."
The magazine also names "sexy and sizzling" bachelors such as Adrian Grenier, Zach Braff, Justin Timberlake, Ryan Reynolds, Ludacris and Apolo Ohno.
David Spade, who starred on the "Just Shoot Me!" television series, also makes the cut.
"Luckily we live in a world where women can overlook the physical and focus on things more important, like having a good personality ... or being on a TV show," the 42-year-old actor-comedian says.
Let me say this… I don’t care who all the rest are on the list but Matthew is by far the choice I would love to bed. So if by chance, Matthew ever happens to come across my little blog here, well you know what to do dear Matthew. Oh how I would love to have one night with him. I would ravish that beautiful body of his to no end! Oh yeah, it wouold be a night to remember for sure.
Ok all I think I am going to go fantasize about my dream man Matthew McConaughey. Perhaps play a little and imagine his beautiful body laying next to mine… touching and licking and slurping each other up. Oh yeah, I am feeling a bit hot now, I think I better go and take care of business… he he.
Kisses,
Jesse~

Web Cam Day Hour by Hour...

Today I thought I would try something new. I wanted to write about my day hour by hour… you know, give little updates about my ongoings throughout the day. So here we go….

8:00 AM:
Wake up time… unfortunately with a massive headache that is not wanting to go away. I get a cold compress and place it on my head and go back to bed.
9:37 AM:
Awake again, and with out the major headache. I grab a bowl of cereal and head to the computer to read email and sign onto to meetcam.com and visit with some folks for a while.
10:00 AM:
Still hanging out at meetcam and just received a private message asking if I was into foot fetish stuff… lol. Now I am getting asked if I will be available later for a footsie web cam show. That would be a big YES I am.
11:00 AM:
Shower and get ready for lunch with my friend Laura.
12:00 PM:
Met with Laura at Taco Beach on Pine Ave. for drinks and tacos. I really love their tacos and margaritas. Laura wants to do a web cam show with me. So I may just let her come hang out for the foot fetish web cam show tonight.
1:00 PM:
Still at luch but finishing up and getting ready to go shopping and get my hair done.
2:00 PM:
At the salon, Shampu in the east artist district to see my stylist for a fabulous blonding treatment. I love being pampered.
3:00 PM:
Back at home and on meetcam hanging out with friends. No signs of the foot fetish guy but I am sure he will appear soon.
4:00 PM:
Took a nap.
5:00 PM
Met up with my friend Laura and introduced her to the web cam world. She loved it.
6:00 PM:
Back on meetcam.com hanging out in the Smokeout Room with all the cool stoner folks. Perving all the chicks with their titties out. Laura and I flashed a bit as well. The dudes in the room really got excited when we started playing with each other. I think we got a bit excited also.
7:00 PM:
Loaded up my laundry and took it down to the laundry room. I love laundry day. Met a hot dude down in the laundry room named Jason. He just moved in to the building and lives on the floor above me. I’ll be keeping an eye out for Jason at the pool this summer for sure!
Well I need to concentrate on getting this laundry done so I will report back with any updates on the foot fetish guy.

Kisses,
Jesse~

I think she finally gets it…

Could it be true? The princess behind bars is actually seeing the light? Well it is about friggin’ time Paris! I hope what I read was true about Ms. Hilton. Apparently Paris had an exclusive phone interview with Barbara Walters.
Here is what I read and listened to via the news and a recorded interview.
The reality TV star and relentless publicity-seeker spoke with Barbara Walters by phone Sunday, a day after releasing a statement saying she hoped the media would focus on "more important things" than her 45-day jail sentence, according to ABC News' Web site.
"I used to act dumb. ... That act is no longer cute," ABC quoted Hilton as saying.
After spending three days in jail in a reckless driving case, Hilton was briefly released to home confinement Thursday for an undisclosed medical condition. An outraged judge sent her back to jail Friday. She is now housed in the medical ward of a maximum-security detention center.
According to ABC News, the call came after Hilton's mother, Kathy, phoned Walters. During the conversation, the 26-year-old socialite called her mom on another line, found out her mother was talking to Walters, and then called Walters collect. All jail inmates are required to call collect.
Hilton has been saying that she is changed by her jailhouse experience, and she repeated that theme with Walters: "Now, I would like to make a difference. ... God has given me this new chance."
Well all I can say is I hope this is not some “Oh I have found God” situation that often happens among people who find themselves incarcerated and have nowhere else to turn. I really do hope for the best for this girl. If anything perhaps her friends will see the light before it is too late for them… hint hint Lindsay Lohan…
It is just a shame that it took something like this to wake Ms. Hilton up. I will be gladly impressed if this way of thinking continues on to a positive life change after Ms. Hilton is released form jail. Good Luck Paris, please keep seeing the light.
Kisses,
Jesse~

Hilton Circus...

LOS ANGELES -- The circus that follows Paris Hilton almost everywhere was out in full force Friday at Superior Court here, with hangers-on toting signs and dancing jigs before the judge's ruling to return her to jail reduced most to stunned silence.
"Oh no," "Melrose" Larry Green muttered softly, shaking his head at the news that the celebutante was heading back to the slammer for violating her probation on a reckless driving conviction.
"People are just jealous of her because her name is Hilton, and she's part of the Hilton hotels," the local eccentric and supporter of offbeat causes had said a couple hours earlier.
"I love the Hilton hotels, especially the one in New York," said Green, an occasional guest on Howard Stern's radio show.
The ruling by Superior Court Judge Michael T. Sauer also had its supporters.
"I think justice was served," civil-rights activist Najee Ali said. "It helps restore the public confidence that was eroding nationally with the star-struck judicial system."
At the same time, Ali expressed sympathy for the star of TV's "The Simple Life."
"This is not a time to celebrate. It is a time to pray for her and her family," he said.
Earlier, news helicopters buzzed Hilton's Hollywood Hills home and paparazzi swarmed a sheriff's patrol car as the sobbing, handcuffed heiress was placed inside and driven to the court.
Inside the courtroom, Hilton's hair was askew and she wore no makeup. She cried throughout the hearing.
Outside, Hilton defenders were outnumbered by TV crews and other journalists who swarmed the courthouse just a day after the Sheriff's Department released her for an undisclosed medical reason.
At times it was hard to separate supporters from wannabe stars and promoters of films and TV shows.
Some people handed out T-shirts for the celebrity Web site TMZ.com, and a plane flew overhead towing a banner proclaiming, "We love Paris."
One person claiming to be a Hilton supporter turned out to be a writer for the "Jimmy Kimmel Live" show. He screamed "no, no, no" after learning Hilton was going back to jail.
Several people who appeared with Hilton in episodes of "The Simple Life" also showed up.
Among them was Joey Carmona, who said the heiress inspired him to lose 30 pounds when she paid a visit to a weight-loss camp as part of the show.
"She supported us on that show, and we're here to support her now," he said before the start of the hearing.
Carmona wouldn't say whether he thought Hilton had been treated fairly by the judicial system or should be returned to jail.
"That's really not for me to say," he said.
Another supporter, Arlene Hampton, held a sign with a photograph of herself and the heiress and the words: "Prayn4U. Love, Arlene."
"She was very supportive, very open and very personable," when she visited the weight-loss camp, Hampton said.
Moses Baltazar, who was there hoping to clear up a traffic ticket, wasn't in Hilton's camp.
He said the hotel heiress only tipped him a dollar when he worked as a valet, even though he went to the trouble of keeping paparazzi away from her.
He said he felt Hilton should be returned to jail.
"Driving like that, you have to behave," said Baltazar, 20. "If you're rich, you have money, you have to respect yourself."

The Antics of an Heiress...

She was taken handcuffed and crying from her home. She was escorted into court disheveled, without makeup, hair askew and face red with tears.
Crying out for her mother when she was ordered back to jail, Paris Hilton's cool, glamorous image evaporated Friday as she gave the impression of a little girl lost in a merciless legal system.
"It's not right!" shouted the weeping Hilton. "Mom!" she called out to Kathy Hilton, who also was in tears.

The 26-year-old hotel heiress tried to move toward her parents but was firmly steered away by two sheriff's deputies, who held her by each arm and hustled her from the courtroom.
Superior Court Judge Michael T. Sauer was apparently unmoved by the pleas of Hilton's three lawyers to send her back to home confinement due to an unspecified medical condition. He ordered Hilton returned to a Los Angeles County jail to serve out the remainder of her 45-day sentence for violating probation in an alcohol-related reckless driving case.
The judge gave no explanation for his ruling. But his comments throughout the hearing showed he was affronted by county Sheriff Lee Baca's decision to set aside his instructions and release Hilton after three days in jail to finish her time in the luxury of her Hollywood Hills home.
Her lawyers said the reason for her release was an unspecified medical condition. The judge suggested that could be taken care of at jail medical facilities.
The sheriff later hinted at a news conference that Hilton had psychological problems, and said she would be watched in jail "so that there isn't anything that is harmfully done to herself by herself."
Following the hearing, Hilton was taken to a correctional treatment center at the downtown Twin Towers jail for medical and psychiatric examination to determine which facility she will be held in, said sheriff's spokesman Steve Whitmore.
"She'll be there for at least a couple of days," he said.
The sheriff later defended his decision, citing jail crowding (although Hilton was in special unit and did not have a cellmate) and what he termed "severe medical problems."
He said he had learned from one of her doctors that she was not taking a certain medication while previously in custody, and that her "inexplicable deterioration" puzzled county psychiatrists.
Baca also charged that Hilton received a more severe sentence than the usual penalty for such a crime, but said he would not try to overrule Sauer's decision again.
"The criminal justice system should not create a football out of Ms. Hilton's status," the sheriff said grimly at a press conference.
After being taken to court in a black-and-white police car, paparazzi sprinting in pursuit and helicopters broadcasting live from above, Hilton entered the courtroom weeping and continued to cry throughout the hearing, which lasted more than an hour.
Her blond hair was pulled back in a disheveled knot, in contrast to the glamorous side-swept style in her booking photo from earlier in the week. She was wrapped in a long gray fuzzy sweatshirt over slacks.
Her body shook constantly as she dabbed at her eyes. Several times she turned to her parents, seated behind her in the courtroom, and mouthed, "I love you." At one point, she made the sign of the cross and appeared to be praying.
Despite being reincarcerated, she could still be released early. Inmates are given a day off their terms for every four days of good behavior, and her days in home detention counted as custody days. It appeared that Friday would count as her sixth day.
Friday's hearing was delayed by a misunderstanding. Hilton apparently thought she was going to be able to participate from home by telephone. But the judge, who had not authorized that, angrily denounced a media outlet for spreading that rumor, although a court spokesman also gave that information to news media. He ordered sheriff's deputies to go to Hilton's home and bring her to court. The process took nearly two hours.
Once the hearing began, Sauer was blunt in his criticism of the sheriff for disobeying his orders, which specifically banned home confinement with electronic monitoring.
"I at no time condoned the actions of the sheriff and at no time told him I approved the actions," he said. "At no time did I approve the defendant being released from custody to her home."
The hearing was requested by the city attorney's office, which had prosecuted Hilton and wanted Baca held in contempt for releasing Hilton despite Sauer's express order that she must serve her time in jail. The judge took no action on the contempt request.
A member of the county counsel's staff said Baca was willing to come to court with medical personnel. The judge did not take him up on the offer.
Assistant City Attorney Dan F. Jeffries argued that Hilton's incarceration was purely up to the judge. "Her release after only three days erodes confidence in the judicial system," he said.
Hilton's attorney, Richard Hutton, implored the judge to order a hearing in his chambers to hear testimony about Hilton's medical condition before making a decision. The judge did not respond to that suggestion.
The judge interrupted several times to say that he had received a call last Wednesday from an undersheriff informing him that Hilton had a medical condition and that he would submit papers to the judge to consider. He said the papers never arrived.
Every few minutes, the judge would interrupt proceedings, state the time on the clock, and note that the papers still had not arrived.
He also noted that he had heard that a private psychiatrist visited Hilton in jail, and he wondered if that person played a role in deciding her medical needs.
The last attorney to speak was another deputy city attorney, David Bozanich, who declared, "This is a simple case. There was a court. The Sheriff's Department chose to violate that order. There is no ambiguity."
Hilton's twisted jailhouse saga began Sept. 7, when she failed a sobriety test after police saw her weaving down a street in her Mercedes-Benz on what she said was a late-night hamburger run.
She pleaded no contest to reckless driving and was sentenced to 36 months' probation, alcohol education and $1,500 in fines. In the months that followed she was stopped twice while driving on a suspended license. The second stop landed her in Sauer's courtroom.
Back before Sauer on Friday, Hilton's entire body trembled as the final pitch was made for her further incarceration. She clutched a ball of tissue and tears ran down her face.
Seconds later, the judge announced his decision: "The defendant is remanded to county jail to serve the remainder of her 45-day sentence. This order is forthwith."
Hilton screamed.
Eight deputies immediately ordered all spectators out of the courtroom. Hilton's mother, Kathy, threw her arms around her husband, Rick, and sobbed uncontrollably.
Deputies escorted Hilton out of the room, holding each of her arms as she looked back.

Kisses,

Jesse~

Not too sexy in an orange jumpsuit…

I Seem to be obsessed with the whole Paris Hilton drama lately. I can only imagine how tormented she must feel, but at the same time I don't feel sorry for her. I read this article about her today...

Hours after strolling the red carpet in a strapless black dress, Paris Hilton traded her designer duds for a jail-issued jumpsuit.
The 26-year-old heiress entered the Century Regional Detention Facility in Lynwood just after 11:30 p.m. Sunday. She's expected to serve three weeks for violating her probation in an alcohol-related reckless driving case.
Hilton surrendered to sheriff's deputies after making a surprise visit to the MTV Movie Awards in the afternoon.
"I am trying to be strong right now," she told reporters on the red carpet. "I'm ready to face my sentence. Even though this is a really hard time, I have my family, my friends and my fans to support me, and that's really helpful."
Sheriff's spokesman Steve Whitmore said Hilton was easy to work with.
"Her demeanor was helpful. She was focused, she was cooperative," he said.
Hilton turned herself in at the Men's Central Jail in downtown Los Angeles just after 10:30 p.m., then was escorted to the all women's facility in Lynwood, where she was booked, fingerprinted, photographed, medically screened and issued an orange top and pants, Whitmore said.
Hilton's booking photo showed the heiress wearing what appeared to be a V-neck shirt, eye makeup and lip gloss that highlighted a slight smile. Her long blond hair was draped over one shoulder.
After checking in, Hilton was given her first meal: cereal, bread and juice.
The "Simple Life" star will be housed in the "special needs" unit of the 13-year-old jail, separate from most of its 2,200 inmates. The unit contains 12 two-person cells reserved for police officers, public officials, celebrities and other high-profile inmates. Hilton's cell has two bunks, a table, a sink, a toilet and a small window. She does not have a cellmate.
Like other inmates in that unit, Hilton will take her meals in her cell and will be allowed outside the 12-by-8-foot space for at least an hour each day to shower, watch TV in the day room, participate in outdoor recreation or talk on the telephone. No cell phones or BlackBerrys are permitted in the facility, even for visitors.
The jail, a two-story concrete building next to train tracks and beneath a bustling freeway, has been an all-female facility since March 2006. It's located in an industrial area about 12 miles southeast of downtown Los Angeles.
"I did have a choice to go to a pay jail," Hilton said Sunday, without giving details. "But I declined because I feel like the media portrays me in a way that I'm not and that's why I wanted to go to county, to show that I can do it and I'm going to be treated like everyone else. I'm going to do the time, I'm going to do it the right way."
When she was sentenced May 4, Superior Court Judge Michael T. Sauer ruled that she would not be allowed any work release, furloughs or use of an alternative jail or electronic monitoring in lieu of jail.
Sometimes stars are allowed to do their time in a jail of their choosing. In such cases, they pay a daily room-and-board fee to the smaller jails, which afford them more privacy and comfort.
Cop-slapping actress Zsa Zsa Gabor, for example, served three days behind bars in 1990 at the El Segundo jail near the Los Angeles International Airport. She paid $85 a day.
On Saturday, about 15 photographers, reporters and television crews staked out the entrances to the jail waiting for Hilton's arrival. Authorities had also cordoned off a grassy area outside the facility for the media. She had until Tuesday to report.
On Sunday, about a dozen photographers and television crews were at the Lynwood facility when she arrived in an unmarked sport utility vehicle. Video captured by celebrity news site TMZ.com showed Hilton inside the vehicle with her mother, Kathy.
Hilton's publicist, Elliot Mintz, said he spoke with Kathy Hilton after she returned from the jail.
"She told me it was very emotional," Mintz said. "She also said that she feels this will be a time when Paris will be able to think and reflect and to spend time alone to learn from the experience because in Paris' life she's never alone - there's always a constant chatter around her."
Officers arrested Hilton in Hollywood on Sept. 7. In January, she pleaded no contest to the reckless-driving charge and was sentenced to 36 months' probation, alcohol education and $1,500 in fines.
She was pulled over by California Highway Patrol on Jan. 15. Officers informed Hilton she was driving on a suspended license and she signed a document acknowledging she was not to drive. She then was pulled over by sheriff's deputies on Feb. 27, at which time she was charged with violating her probation.

Kisses,

Jesse~

Sexy Poetry…

Lights, camera, action
Sexy lady scantily clad
For your satisfaction
She feels your eyes
While she spreads open
Her luscious thighs
She wiggles and slides
Her sensual ass
From side to side
You try to breath
Sighting for a moment
A glimpse of what’s underneath
Silken wet slit Soft and pink
You want to taste her
Your mind is crazy, you can’t think
Her clit to bite
Her wetness to drink
You sip her sweet lips
Imagine grabbing her hips
Your cock swollen
You want to thrust inside
Feel her warmth
Deeper in you slide
You want to spread her ass
As wide as can be
Plant your face between her cheeks
Just the thought brings you to your knees
The familiar tremble
Starts to climb
You hunger for
Just a little more time
You hold out no more
Explode with vigor
Feeling it to your core
Lights dim to low
Action now slows
Camera angles low
This is the end of your show….


Kisses,
Jesse~

Web Cam Pervathon…

Today I was able to catch up on some long awaited perving. I logged into meetcam and went on the hunt for the idea pervathon. I didn’t exactly know what I wanted to see but I did know I was feeling rather horny.
I got my sexy little hot shorts on and cute little white tank top and angled my cam right on my ass. I was out for the perv and boy was I hungry! I hopped from room to room until I settled on the meetcam radio room where DJ Satchmo was doing his show. I love to rock out to hot sexy tunes and he was playing all the right songs to get me in the perfect mood.
I was shaking my ass to all the rocked out music being played and getting quite a bit of attention. I started opening up cams and viewing all of my admirers and to my surprise I was privy to some outstanding cocks being stroked for my pleasure…. Or so they told me it was to my pleasure that is… lol. No matter I was enjoying the views.
I decided to get a few of my toys out to play with while I watched the many cocks growing larger and harder on the array of web cams I had up to view. As I brought out my toys I noticed the room count starting to grow. We were creating a rather large audience playing and pleasuring ourselves in this room. Many of my sexy female friends joined the fun and I was more than happy for the variety in web cam views. I love watching women get off… gets me really wet to watch other women playing with themselves.
In the end I was lucky enough to catch a new couple who were having a little orgy at their pad on web cam. They said in the room it was their first time here at meetcam and couldn’t wait to share their sex life with us all. I can honestly say I don’t think anyone was disappointed at their arrival. I certainly welcomed them wholeheartedly.
I finally couldn’t hold my orgasm any longer and came while watching the orgy at the new couple’s place. Very hot show I must say… and I can not wait to perv them again.
Ahhh, yes it is definitely good to be home. I really missed my web cam fun.

Kisses,
Jesse~