The Seven Kinds of Sex

Once upon a…actually, every time a bedroom opportunity presents itself, the potential for mind-blowing, body-rocking sex is there. Ah, but what kind of sex? Depending on where you are and what kind of mood you’re in when the urge to merge hits you, you two could opt for porn-star shagging, an all-business quickie in the supply closet, or a romantic weekend playing “explorer” in each other’s pants. It’s knowing what to do in each situation that separates the men from the boys.
As my friend Jeanine says, “A guy who’s amazing in bed knows when to be wild and experimental, when to be slow and sweet, and when to just grab me and bend me over something sturdy.” In other words, different pokes demand different strokes, and having a strategy for whatever comes your way can make the difference between a fantastic experience and a mediocre one. Read on and master the grand slam of sex scenarios. Collect all seven!

SEX TYPE #1: NOPEY(No-Sex Sex)

Well, maybe “no-intercourse sex” is a better name. Thanks to a cruel and unjust God, sometimes one party is horny and the other ain’t. Or maybe you just went at it in the shower solo (“But Buffy was on…”), or she’s riding the crimson tide…There are lots of hideous possibilities. “Mismatched libidos happen all the time in relationships,” says Melinda Gallagher, founder of CAKE, a trendy sex entertainment company for women. “It doesn’t mean there’s something horribly wrong.” Begrudgingly agreeing to sex leads to resentment; denying it leads to frustration. But there’s a wonderful middle ground, in which the “not tonight” party lavishes his or her full nongenital attention on the horndog. Skipping intercourse every once in a while in favor of manual or oral makes for mouth-watering sex later on, when you’re both in the mood.Even getting him- or herself off can be an erotic experience for the hornier party, as long as the other party acts as willing voyeur. “Most women will be a little shy at first, but being able to masturbate in front of a man is a hugely liberating experience,” says Gallagher. “To make her comfortable, make yourself a part of the action by touching her breasts, licking her inner thighs, or placing your hand over hers.”“My boyfriend and I live together, so we have sex all the time,” says Cheryl, 31. “Every once in a while, I need a release and he’s tapped out. When that happens he’ll do this great thing where he’ll tell me how hot it is to watch me, and he’ll coach me all the way. Best part: Sometimes he gets so horny watching, we have sex! We both win!”
I think I will wait until tomorrow to give you another type.

Kisses,
Jesse~