Around the World

Some folks still think that sex is the same for everybody, wherever they go. What about a trip around the world, getting to know customs and curiosities of certain peoples in different parts of the planet.
In South Africa, at the Zulu tribe, a king could keep as many as hundred wives. Certain customs of this tribe are somewhat peculiar- being sexual relation prohibited after a nightmare, during a storm. The same rule applies in case of a husband killing a big cobra, a crocodile or a hyena.
In Afghanistan, back at the Taliban regime, women’s sexuality was literally non-existent. They were obliged to cover themselves with burkas, with o­nly eyes and nose protected by a wet mesh enabling sight. When turning adolescents, they were forbidden from striking a single word with men, except parents. Looking over at or remaining more than five minutes with a man other than a family member, deemed adultery and bound to pelting at public premises until death. Let alone breast-feeding or shoe trampling sounds, totally out of question. Women aren’t allowed jewelry flashing in public as well as nails polished showing or fingers would be chopped off. Households with women in should display painted windows to avert outsiders from peering over.
After toppled the Taliban regime TV broadcasted footage of a people celebrating their freedom. Theses images of a country undergoing reconstruction came to show that some women had already abolished Burkas. Every which transformation can affect the exercising mode of sexuality.
In any aspect, transformations of a culture in a whole usually tend to be somewhat sluggish and, in that, o­nly time will take care of showing results.
In Alaska, some Inuit tribes have the custom of offering, or even better, placing up for grabs, their wives or daughters as a gesture of friendship and beckoning. This traditional “sexual hospitality” can also be found in certain places of Siberia and Polynesia. The civilized world still reluctant towards such welcoming sexuality custom, so much for the male population.
In Angola, when a man is crowned Saba (a king head of a group of tribes), he receives as a gift a virgin and ought to have sex with her in front of his subjects. In the Ashanti tribe, in Ghana, the widows are obliged to have sexual relations with strangers so to rid themselves from the spirit of the former husband.
In Botswana, men are allowed polygamy. When they are absent, their wives are permitted to keep sexual relations with each other. In this country, the small vaginal lips “as big as bat wings” are considered attractive for them. As children, they are used to pull their small lips, since used to kill bats and after burning their wings, smear its ashes o­n cuts done around the area.
After all so far described, it’s undeniable that the manner we exercise sex is the net result of social-cultural influences of a people in a certain age. How about you, still thinking that sex can be the same for everybody?

Kisses,

Jesse~

Male Climax

Also the Male orgasm would features particularities and curiosities for the female gaze. Thus male orgasm stands for the last stage of a cycle linked to the sexual response. Otherwise known as sexual peak by characteristically releasing built up tensions, which come followed by muscular spasms triggered.
To our better understanding let’s shed light on the stages in which comprise the male sexual response. In accordance to conducted surveys by experts on the human sexuality there are four phases comprising our sexual response…
Arousal is the physiological response triggered by external stimuli on which point interpreted as sexual urge. There are significant alterations in this phase such as vascular clogging (increased ongoing blood) and myotonia (involuntary contraction of muscular fibers).
Roughly speaking the penis gets harden on sprees of desire, as of neurological input some such haemostatic (blood flow constriction). A desire sign gets triggered in the brain which in turn sends off signals throughout the body. All takes place in a somewhat subdue manner, in a blink of an eye, figure of speech.
Leaving all set for sexual intercourse due to our guest star the man’s testosterone level, which sets him a part when it comes to reproducing.
The plateau, this phase might occur prior or post ejaculation, promoting testicular elevation thus clogging up the scrotal sac.
Sexual climax could be divided in two sets first of all there’s contraption of the prostrate followed by the release of seminal fluid (within pause intervals). once geared in action there’s no way to block it up once involuntary muscular contraction would set tension released.
Resolution aka refractory period, in this stage the man looses erection and bound to remain numb to sexual stimuli for time being.
There’s no divergent relation so as to crisscross orgasm with ejaculation. As are processes profoundly intertwined with neither origins nor functions alike. A man derives orgasm from a neurological pleasure doom. What happen is shortly upon striking orgasm as it were, seminal fluid builds up in the prostate gland bulb which sparks off certain sensation of eminent ejaculation. And ultimately so takes place the whole dynamic process from then on. It begins by drawing the testicles close together, in that the discharge of seminal fluid promoted by muscular ripples on sexual desire threshold.
The link between orgasm and ejaculation lies within the fact that a man can reach climax without shooting or even shoot his load inducing pleasure aside from sexual intercourse. Out of curiosity at regards semen is that might sting if getting in contact with the eyes.
Some are bound to produce less fluid by growing old. So those worryingly about it are truly producing it on average.
In order to increase the shooting load all he has to do is lengthen the elapsed time on the initial phases of sexual arousal aka foreplay. Otherwise sexuality as offhanded is not a rule, but specific to each and every one so much as lifestyle and background.

Kisses,

Jesse~

Rapport

When two matters bearing plastic capability, such as wax or clay, get blended in, are tended to merger into shape by the slightest pressure applied. No sexual puns intended.
On the same token, each element deforms the other, which in turn would get deformed. Both surfaces while in contact would come together ultimately from head to toe and bit by bit. The same applies to two human figures, whenever there’s absence of any significant emotional and muscular strain. So what’s with sexual approach?
What’s in sex for those into moments so intimate? If there’s ever any strain, the two bodies could barely entwine and would hardly adapt into each other.
As it so happens, coming to think of two uneven solids placed alongside each other. Hence the likelihood of both areas in effective contact being significantly smaller, therefore the “acknowledgement” that one object would bear of the other might be extremely limited.
Wilhelm Reich attributed to the “muscular armor of the persona” important properties elsewhere. By and large people got used to say that their innermost would not be moved by their looks, being it “molded” because of others’. Some went as far as claiming that their own “physical frame” got nothing to do with themselves. After all there might be a certain outlook and another inwards. Incidentally, when it comes to letting it all hang out, in the best of it, when the “visage” comes undone in all of a sudden, they can’t help simply falling over themselves. That’s exactly what happens when getting shockingly news. Otherwise if tripped over and go off balance. Upon sudden shock or fall, there’s the impression gathered that our “innerself” is not there.
The dissipation of the so-called” shield”, yet the soothing of muscular strains that’s consisted of our demeanors, comes followed by some gradual yield of self-consciousness. Any one lives up on a regular basis this experience by the patterns of sleep inducement. By the same rate that we’re getting ourselves wrapped into sleep, our muscles turn limber, and meantime, we loose consciousness.
According to Reich, while at sexual intercourse so much could happen likewise. If sex turns out really satisfactorily, stroke exchanging would by all means come followed by the soothing of strains and the loss of self-consciousness, so far vanishes thoroughly any sense of acumen throughout orgasmic shuddering.
Most people would react to those sensations as if under threat of a great danger, the danger of psychological dismantling, by the annihilation of “innerself”. If people happen to brace themselves strongly fended against this so-called “threat”, and so love turned out to be such a inglorious pursue, in which the defeat is bound to the “offender” much to the “offended”.
The give and take of themselves means letting go, by a split second, the hostile world through which our “bodyframe” was cased. Furthermore, hailing in a cozy corridor, balmy, tender and overwhelming.
Such is the depth of emotional insight as boastfully provided by their sexual rapport, when spawns in its full range of motion.
Actually, why is that a great many people out there fears of letting themselves in for loving affairs? Grounded on the studies conducted by Reich there could be envisaged that the response to this questioning not lies in each individual taken separately, so much as the society itself and the sate of affairs it dictates the personality framework of ilk.

Kisses,

Jesse~

Macho Men

Why do women fall in love? We know why us men fall in love. We fall in love with the great sex that she provides. It isn't brain surgery. We all know that to be a fact. When you fall in love with a woman it isn't about how well diverse she is in Roman history, it is because she can suck a mean pecker. There is a reason why God made it so that women can get pregnant. It isn't because it would hurt too much to pass a baby through our dick. It is because they are emotional creatures. They rely on their might, while we rely on your manhood. Our desire to build, conquer, and drink a cold beer on a hot day. Women tend to be the ones that take care of the babies more.

They tend to all of their whims and whimpers all day long. It isn't because they like it, it is because they feel the desire to do it from inside of them. You think that a woman wants a man who is caring and sweet. How many times did you pretend to be that way just so you could get some nookie? More times than you can count?
A woman doesn't want that because it is too much like themselves. They want something that isn't like them. That is why you like boobies as much as you do, because you don't have them. We all want what we don't have. We see the rich people on television and we want to be like them. We see famous people who act in movies and we pretend to be like them. We see men slam dunking a basketball and we wish we could do it.
The same is true with a woman. She wants what she doesn't have. She is already emotional, she doesn't need more of that. She is already loving and kind, she doesn't want to get more of that. Have you ever looked at the big burley biker guy who has a hot chick next to him and wonder how he got her? I mean the guy looks like he hasn't bathed in a year and probably couldn't write a complete sentence if he was forced to. Women like the big macho guys. Men who strut their stuff and act like they don't give a damn about anyone but themselves. Guys who act like this bang more women than you can count. Why? Why you ask that these guys get laid all the time? It is two reasons really.
One is that women are looking for something to fill the void. They have a gap inside them and they need someone to fill it. They don't need a pussy, they need a real man who can take care of them. They want a man to protect them. After all, people are just animals. She wants a man who can take charge and protect her from the evil from the world. She wants to be a helpless damsel in distress. Some women like a man who has been around sexually. That drives them wild. If they think you are a stud, then you will be able to please them in bed. I think this goes back to the animal qualities in people. If you have had sex with lots of women, then you have passed on your genes to a lot of women. If this is the case, then you are a superior male. Only a superior male would get laid so many times in the animal world.
Think of it like this, if he is an asshole he probably isn't too bright. He is more than likely to be the type that looses his emotions easily. His thought process isn't well thought out, instead he reacts instead of spending his time with prevention. Women find this stupidity attractive. This means they can figure them out. This also means they will be easy targets for mind games. The key thing to understand about women is that they tend to go for the simple guys. Let your testosterone hang loose and let it fly. This will turn her on if she is into manly men. Roll your sleeves up and show your muscles. She will dig that.

Kisses,

Jesse~

Sex on the Second Date?

There maybe some things you are doing that make the date stop dead in its tracks Do you spend half of the date talking about that hot piece of ass that you dated last week? Do you talk her ear off about how your last girlfriend screwed you over really bad? Do you talk about how you never get lucky? This is why you aren't getting that second date. Women are like dogs, they are territorial creatures. You are their territory. If they could, they would probably piss on you to leave their mark. Instead, when you get married they do this by picking out the clothes that you wear. Stop talking about your past dates and your evil ex's.

That will drive her way from you than if she was driving a expensive foreign sports car. If you feel it coming, bite your tongue so you don't make the same mistakes. Make sure that you shower and shave before you go out. Make sure that you look and smell good. Spend some money on a good hair cut. Don't go looking like a greasy smelly slob. She will judge you by your appearance. Don't skimp on it, or you won't get that second date. Make sure your finger nails are trimmed and make sure there is no dirt underneath them.
Make sure that you smell good. Have some nice smelling soap or cologne handy. Don't over do it. Don't make her jump away when she gets close to you. Use common sense. If you can afford it, get your teeth cleaned often by the dentist. This will leave your teeth looking their best. Make sure that before a date you always brush your teeth. After you are done brushing your teeth, look in the mirror to make sure there is nothing left in your teeth.
Don't drink coffee or eat a ton of garlic or onions before you go on your date. She will take one whiff of your breath and run for the hills. Eat a mint or something before you pick her up. The true champ at getting laid might tell you to trim your pubes before you go on a date. You never know, you might get lucky?! I don't know about this one. Personally, I like the afro look. Though if you don't, trim to your hearts content. Make sure that you know where you are going. Don't drive in circles trying to find the place that you are taking her out to. If you aren't sure where the place is, scope it out before you get to her house. She will loose interest real fast if she is listening to her stomach growl while you try to locate the restaurant.
Never ask for her to pick you up. This shows weakness. What kind of woman would want a man who can't drive? Never take a bus or walk. If you don't drive, take a taxi or borrow a friend's car. This makes you look like a freak. The first thing that will probably come to her mind is, is that you lost your drivers license for driving drunk. She won't want a second date with a drunk.
Here are some things you can watch out for while you are at the restaurant.
Don't drink too much. If you drink too much you will end up acting silly or saying stuff that you will have wished you never said. Don't be cheap. Dust off that wallet and spend a few bucks! Don't forget her. Don't go talking to the buddy that just walked by. Say a few words and then go back to the conversation. If you don't, you will loose points in the game.
Don't touch her. Don't go trying to find ways to touch her while you eat your meal. That will just make you look like a pervert or someone who is desperate. Don't whine and complain. No one wants to hear that! Don't comment on her body. Don't go telling her that she has a nice rack while you are slurping down your soup. This will make you look like a fool who only wants to get in bed with her.
If you follow these easy to follow steps, you will be well on your way to your second date. Keep your cool buddy, use your brain. You will bag that second date if you work hard enough.

Kisses,

Jesse~

Dating Seduction

If you are a student or work full time, there is one thing that you know. There is no time for anything these days. It takes all you can do to make ends meet, let alone find a lover. The trend these days is to find a temporary lover. Someone you can spend some of your free time with, but not feel like you have to dedicate your whole life to. This is becoming popular among professional women. They have needs, but not enough time to per sue a long term relationship. There can be many benefits of this kind of relationship. I already know what you are thinking, sex. Yes, the sex can be a great benefit. If both of you are comfortable with the idea of having sex. I know what you are thinking, 'Its all about the sex'. That really isn't true. I mean yes, the sex is great with someone when there is no strings attached to it. Nothing is more satisfying than being able to please yourself and your partner without having to worry about her bitching about the trash that needs taken out afterwards.
Everyone needs a companion. We all need to feel attractive and feel that we are worth something to someone. I like to think of this as a unleaded relationship. You are there when there is a need, if the other person needs someone to talk to, and to full fill both of your sexual needs. It is like being in a relationship without all the nagging and other responsibilities that you have. There is no need to worry about her bills or putting food on her table, or her having to worry about doing your laundry or taking care of the house.
There are potential dangers of relationships like this though.
Sometimes people may begin to mistake sex for love. When it comes to oral sex she could suck a golf ball through a straw. After awhile you begin to feel comfortable with her and you come to expect the sex. Then after awhile you fall in love with how her ass looks like a heart when she bends over, and it is all down hill from there. This is true with women as well. They begin to feel comfortable in bed with a partner and then they mistake lust for love. They enjoy the pleasure that you are able to give them, and in their mind they think it is love. While the only thing you are thinking about after you have sex is how weird the sexual position was, they are thinking about a house and kids.
Often times these types of relationships turn into long term relationships. The sex is good, you don't want to ruin a good thing right? Why would you turn a hot piece of ass down for a lonely time with you and your bottle of hand lotion on a Saturday night? These types of relationships are never good ones to per sue long term. They tend to end abruptly and cause a lot of pain. Every man knows what I am talking about.
One time I was involved with this hot piece of ass. The sex was great and he had a good time together. It was the best thing that ever happened to me. She fell in love with me. It was no longer just sex for her, but I was now her boyfriend. That was news to me! After I got sick of her, I dumped her. All I wanted was some sex and a friend, she wanted a new husband to take care of her while she sat on her ass all day doing nothing. There is too much tuna in the sea for that!
After it was all over she became a wreck and started stalking me. She told me how she loved me and how I really loved her but I was in denial. I wasn't in denial, I loved what she had between her legs. There was nothing more to it than that. She spent years chasing me and making my life a living hell. It seemed that every other day she said she wanted to kill herself because she couldn't live without me. She ruined my dating life. What woman wants to be with a man who has a crazy ex who calls him all day long and shows up at the house crying?
A temporary lover is a great thing if both of you understand it is exactly that. Both of you can get your needs met and enjoy each others' company. I would be cautious with this sort of thing though. Because women tend to use sex as something to reel you in. They think if they put out, that you will fall in love with them and live happily ever after. In truth what happens is, they fall in love and hurt themselves. Then they make your life hell and try to ruin everything for you. If you are too busy for a real relationship, then this is the way to go. If you don't have nerves of steel, then you might want to consider buying a pocket pussy from your local sex shop.

Kisses,

Jesse~

Sex Positions

There is no right or wrong way to enjoy sexual intercourse with your partner. If you are both having a good time, it's right for you. That is what should be the important deciding factor. The entire reason we have sex is to experience pleasure with our partners, as long as both parties are having a good time, you are doing everything right :-) There are a LOT of different positions for sexual intercourse! Some people prefer to be lying down, some standing, some sitting. Some men prefer being on top of his partner, some underneath, , and some prefer their own tried and true favourite positions. You need to discover what works best for you and your partener.

The Positions We'll present the most popular positions, and what features make each one fun - plus any minuses to each position. Some people love to fuck while lying on their sides. Some people read the Karma Sutra and try some truly amazing positions for making love, and some prefer their own tried and true favourite positions. Please remember that when trying any new sexual position, the man should be gradual inserting his penis into his partner and should begin with a slow stroke till both partners have had time to accustom themselves to the new position so that they feel more confident.
Missionary Style The missionary position is the most common position for intercourse in the western culture. The reason we call it the missionary position is because in the nineteenth century, Christian missionaries considered it the only "proper" position for intercourse. These missionaries tried to convince foreigners to adopt this position as they claimed it was less "animalistic" than other sexual positions. What it basically is is the man gets on top of the woman, with both partners facing each other. He gets between her legs, inserts his penis, and lies on her while using his hands or elbows to hold up part of his weight and to move him. In reality, the man on top position can be pretty versatile. Some people enjoy this position, feeling it is intimate because you can see your partner's face. If the woman holds herself just right, she can easily enjoy the man's pubic bone rubbing her clitoris (allowing her to orgasm). If her partner wants deeper penetration than the missionary position typically offers, his partner can raise her legs and he can pull her forward.
Woman On Top Many couples prefer the female superior position also known as the woman on top position. A lot of women like this position because they can control how deep and how hard the penis' strokes are. By experimenting with the positions of the body to cause changes in the angles of insertion, the woman can frequently enjoy better stimulation of the clitoris lying on top. Also the woman can kneel over her partner or squat over her partner. She can face him or face away from him. A squatting position allows the woman to use her calves as well as her thigh muscles for motion. Or while squatting, she can put her feet on the floor in order to partly stand and then lower herself. This position is great if either the man or the woman wish to masturbate the woman's clitoris. Woman on top is also a perfect position for a woman who likes to look at her partner's face during intercourse.
Lying On Your Sides This is the best position for the woman who likes to masturbate during intercourse. It leaves her front area fully open to be touched. Many women find that the easiest position to allow use of a vibrator when being fucked from behind when both partners are on their sides. Also there are amazing opportunities for the man to fondle his partner's breasts - or anything else he likes. Some couples find that far more body to body contact occurs while spooning on their sites, allowing them to feel connected with their partner. A lot of men also find they can last longer in this position because it does not allow as vigorous a stroke. It is not possible while spooning to easily enjoy a long stroke, but a deep stroke works quite well. This is an excellent position for intercourse when the woman is in her last few months of pregnancy as long as you are careful not to fuck too deeply. Experiment a little with this position - try it with the woman's upper leg up, or down. Try thrusting in slightly different angles. You can find a LOT of different sensations using this position!
Standing Up Adventurous couples find standing during intercourse can be quite exciting. The easiest way is to have the woman bend over. This way, her vagina is available and open, and her partner will find himself able to penetrate especially deeply. Also you can enjoy looking down at your partner in a totally different way. If you're a guy who enjoys using a little more athletic prowess, this position is a good one. You use more energy standing than you do lying down or sitting. Also it takes more balancing, so be sure that both partners have positioned themselves and are well-balanced before attempting to have intercourse while standing - you wouldn't want to fall. Also some people sit the woman on a desk or dresser. The male stands while his partner sits with her pelvis forward and her legs apart at the edge of the surface. Man standing woman sitting is a great position because it allows the man intense control of his thrusts. Also, the women can control the angle that the penis enters her by shifting her hips, allowing her much better orgasms using this position and masturbation together. Experimenting with new sexual positions can keep sex fresh and new. Each new position can bring new experiences in touching, in angles, in prolonging your sexual experience or in making it more passionate. Some positions may allow one of you to have more intense orgasms, or to find different sensations and different feelings in joining your bodies. Having new positions and experimenting with them can provide endless variety to any relationship, whether established or brand new.

Kisses,

Jesse~